Men accounted for about 80% of US suicides in 2021 and the % has dramatically increased 2022 due to COVID & the implications; white men are devastated, & black men, boys; why is the male, adult & boy
Men accounted for about 80% of US suicides in 2021 and the % has dramatically increased 2022 due to COVID & the implications; white men are devastated, & black men, boys; why is the male, adult & boy
struggling? self-doubt, lost, hopeless, despaired, withdrawn; worsened now by the social & economic damage due to COVID, Black & white; can we push for female rights & help broken males at same time?
Gaslighted Equality programs puts men in an early grave.
Equality is of Responsibility and Standards, not of pick and choose outcomes via privileges and systemic discrimination.
Emasculating men, and calling that "women's Rights" contributes to the problem.
There's a "gender gap" at the Selective Service Office, sod floor of Arlington, lifespan, and in the 4x suicide rate, the cumulative effect of gaslighted Equality programs.
Perhaps a return to objectivity vs fantasy would be a start?
Objective Systems Analysis my Profession. Psychology, as construced and practiced, is the textbook clinical example of a Mass Formation Psychosis Narcissistic Pathology Paradigm at minimum by own rules out of the box. Institutional Systemic Racist Sexist Misandry in education and employment is not "Affirmative" - it is racist sexist misandry. Diversity Inclusion Equity is more word salad BS.
The mAsKs, shutdowns, and covid19 vaXX DON'T WORK. Forced coerced experimental drugs including the covid19 vaXX violate the Nuremberg Codes.
The proper model is Costs vs Benefits, Opposite Sloping Regression Lines Plotted Sum of the Least Squares, to meet in the Golden Mean Middle, least amount of objective negatives to the population. Improper model: 2 weeks to flatten the curve.
Men in women's spaces harm women. Women in men's spaces harm men. It is an Equal and Opposite Relationship. Who knew? Anyone possessing simple logic simple integrity.
Eat meat! There is so much at stake, or should I say at steak?
Or at the very least, eat a proper diet, not one that Big Farma, Big Pharma, Big Green, or Big Woke wants you to eat. See https://www.youtube.com/@metabolicmind, for example.
Absolutely right. I've worked self-funded in suicide since 2015: suicide prevention, awareness, education, grief, treatment and recovery innovation, and more recently I've become trained/qualified as a metabolic health coach.
I'm a suicide survivor myself - loss of partner to suicide (Apr 2015) and narrowly survived my own suicide attempt (end-2015) - which was also a potential multiple homicide too. I'm very lucky and grateful now for every beautiful moment.
I was unrelentingly suicidal 2015-2021. All I wanted was to die, trapped (which is a big factor in how people feel when suicidal) because I knew what suicide does to bereaved loved ones.
Diet changed things massively for me, and understanding inflammation - which is a feedback loop from brain-to-body-to-brain-to-body-etc.
Read Prof Ed Bullmore's book The Inflamed Mind.
Read Al Alvarez's 1971 seminal work on suicide The Savage God.
Read Kazimierz Dabrowski's book Positive Disintegration, and his BRILLIANT 'successor' Bill Tillier's book Personality Development through Positive Disintegration.
Understanding that there is a point to the pain gave me hope, and the Theory of Positive Disintegration (TPD) explains so much.
I also learned that long-distance/marathon running (by which I was self-medicating for several years) is not good for suicide/mental disintegration nor recovery because it causes inflammation.
We must be kind to ourselves, when of course suicidal thoughts and bereavement - loads of guilt, shame, regret, rage, PTSD fractals, etc., and the demons of poor sleep - all cause very self-destructive urges and lifestyle changes.
Carbs cause inflammation. Carbs are sugar. Not all inflamed people are obese.
I've been very 'keto' for two years and mostly carnivore for nearly a year. I cook in beef dripping, lard or extra virgin olive oil. Grain/seed/veg oils are massively harmful. 'Low fat' products are very unhealthy. Full fat is healthy. If you want milk get full fat or unhomogenised, or raw. I just have double cream; about 300-450ml every day. I eat eggs, meat, fish (esp oily edible bones fish such as sardines, pilchards) a little cheese. If I want something sweet I have 70%+ dark chocolate or 100% cocoa with water, but with cream or milk is okay too. I eat avocados. Occasionally coconut. Other than that, no fruit or veg.
Each of us is different, but very very few people can be healthy through to old age as vegans and vegetarianism is quite difficult too.
Microbiome (gut health and natural 'flora' - bacteria is crucial too) and too much alcohol or regular ultra-processed foods/drinks and pharmaceuticals destroys gut flora.
Full-fat yoghurt, kefir, and fermented cabbage, etc., is generally all good for microbiome. There are other fermented foods and drinks, of various countries (cultures - excuse the pun).
I'm fit, strong, healthy, powerful, zero pharma since end-2016 (just Paracetamol and Ibuprofen because I drank some wild river water that I later learnt was killing dogs - I refused antibiotics and took three months to recover naturally, and then I was hill-running again. I mostly walk now, plus gym work and calisthenics, yoga, pilates, and I can sprint as fast as I could in my 30s, which was/is very fast. I'm 66 now.
Dr Christopher Palmer (Brain Energy book) and Dr Georgia Ede (Change Your Diet Change Your Mind book) are doing great work on keto/LCHF/carnivore and brain health.
Suicides are rising mostly globally and have been for decades, correlating with recessions especially. Besides the ratcheting emasculation of the male role/purpose, men tend not to talk about their feelings (big boys don't cry) and trauma needs an outlet or it eats away at the soul. Men are generally heavier and choose more practical and reliably engineered methods. There are many other factors. Every suicide is different. In the UK suicides lower than 10 years of age don't get recorded but they do happen.
The FDA Food Pyramid is corrupt and so is the NHS Eatwell Guide/Plate.
Happily things are changing fast now, especially UK.
Prof Tim Noakes founder of https://Nutrition-Network.org is arguably the world's greatest authority and coach/educationalist on keto/LCHF nutrition.
https://Prolongevity.co.uk is fabulous for pharmacists (because the founder Graham Phillips is the UK's top pharmacist)
The 1-day International Food Addiction Conference and 2-day PublicHealthCollaboration.org conferences are back-to-back - 17-19 May 2024 London/Croydon.
Wow. Tons of useful info here. Bless you for turning the corner, and coming back at life with new information and a new appreciation. And for sharing. Most men may not be suicidal but simply accept living in some degree of psychic and physical pain as the norm because we have grown accustomed to it and forgot what life could be without it. Not to mention that men have beem pummeled socially for years as being toxic, sexist, brutes. Enough already.
Most men are honest, decent, caring people who love those close to them and would take a bullet for them.
I know one devastated male. Makes a good living, post war vet. Always had the biggest heart.
Lured in by a woman who said she needed him after her grandmother's death. Placed herself right in his bed. I was staying there after a tornado knocked my home down. Whike I had no idea anyone was there, I heard noises in the night. I got up to find her there- my son at work. When I asked her to leave, she told me no. She absolutely would not leave. I had warned my son about her type, which was incompatible w our beliefs.
He scolded me- she was a "nice girl".
Well, she got pregnant, as things go, she left for her home on KC. She asked for money to build her home. She asked for money to build a nursery. She wanted Harry Potter, while he tried to convince her that more soft and soothing things were better for a nursery.
Yes, he participated. Now, he has no chance of building his own home.
While they had a verbal agreement for child support and visitation, she waited just a bit over those 6 months needed for him to contest her moving w his child. He didn't know that, nor did I. Shame on those attorneys who will seek to get every drop of blood out of these dads (or noncustodial parents). Now, my son pays the majority of his pay to her, to build her home & kingdom. But #what about dad? We need a new campaign.
How is a good for a child to be given a luxury life while dad is plunged into poverty? How will the child view dad, and himself? How will further generations believe it is just to go after and "get" goods? How does a healthy child prosper while dad is left in ruins. And many suicidal? How does that benefit anyone?
Futher, while my daughter and I were preparing to send her off to college we encountered a young teller. This you g woman admitted how hard it is to get the education need these days. Said the only way is to get pregnant. This should be criminal, especially when she pursues him.
Women can be wiley. Let's get back to the "get to know you" courting period before giving ones heart. It's best to let the head be in charge as one discern if a person is right and just and in line w your culture and values. It's important to pay attention to parents also, as they see from outside. That's not to say let them rule, but let them share wisdom.
We need a new campaign to male things right "#what about dads?"
I forgot to say he was awarded 1 weekend a month visitation-all on his time & expense.
It's 3 hours away, so rather than drive 6 hrs ×2 over the weekend, and have bonding time in the car, they stay in a hotel. That's pretty costly too. And not a stable environment, leading to the further destruction of child's view of dad (then child) and dad himself . Pure insanity!
Parental Alienation is happening all over the world - and generally to men.
The number of fathers that have been denied ANY access or only have limited access to their children by the courts, is huge.
Tens of thousands of fathers are shut completely out of their children's lives by the courts in the US, in the UK and in the EU.
What the hell is happening?
Many of these fathers have spent thousands of dollars thinking lawyers will help them, only to end up broke and with minimal to no custody rights.
And suicide is almost always contemplated.
I was just told of one case in Arizona where they actually took the father's name off the birth certificates of his two children. There is now no record of him ever even being a father.
Yes suicides for men have gone up - and many of these same men would have given their lives to protect their children from EUA vaccines demanded by school districts around the world - particularly in the US - they've had no say in the life or death of their own children.
If you’re a white male in a blue collar job in California you’re screwed. My nephew was fired after October 7 because he’s Jewish and didn’t speak Spanish .....the company he worked for was owned by Egyptian Americans who hired mostly illegals. That’s what he was told to his face.
I agree completely about the psyop of the womens movement, which was created by the propagandist Edward Bernays, with sinister motives. I marched with my mother in NYC, as a child. It is all part of the depopulation scheme, and eugenics.
Maybe we should stop teaching men to not be men. It’s pretty simple. You can lift women to “equality” without trashing men. Ultimately women aren’t happy being “equal” either.
I think the Barbie movie had the right solution: as Barbie herself said near the end, “Maybe it shouldn’t be ‘It’s Barbie and Ken’, maybe instead it could be ‘It’s Barbie’ AND ‘It’s Ken’”
Lording themselves over women doesn’t make men happy. Pursuing their own individual passions and dreams in a society that respects the individual and requires work, honesty and responsibility is what makes men (and women) happy. And when we’re doing what fulfills us, we need not resort you outsourcing our satisfaction to a de facto servant. That’s the old model of relationships. The new model is one of mutual respect, empathy and support between individuals who choose each other for their capacity to encourage each other’s higher development.
Lots of men still think the pie is limited and sharing a slice with a woman means having less for themselves. That’s just wrong. Thus one factor in the increasing male despair. Used to be just female despair, and nobody cared. That was wrong! But it works both ways. Neither side will be happy until a healthy, cooperative balance is reached.
Manipulation of the masses started a long time ago media saturation people at the top gave orders to media to distract the public Also make them believe it’s their fault parenting guilt economic crisis it has to be done gradually to the people so it works use the White House to show it’s ok to look like that wake up America watch out for those news omg how awful that happen to them See it’s not so bad......
I’ve known this for years, having been a senior in high school when LBJ’s “Great Society” became law. What a tragedy as I have watched the destruction of our beloved democratic republic dissolve into the mess it is today. We are so close to losing it, as the Marxist movement continues to roll over & destroy. Started with the destruction of the family under LBJ--totally Marxist ideology leading to communism. Dumb down education, break up the family, make government debt soar, cripple families with debt & inflation, allow lies to permeate society--you get the drill. Stalin called the masses “useful idiots.” John Adams said this republic will not stand without an educated, moral electorate. Get it, yet???
This is just the beginning. I want to collect stories of the terrible things that break families-the injustices that do more harm to pur children, grandchildren and dads (and even grandparents).
I want to start a real campaign. Just leaving the workplace. I have heard so many stories. I've also heard of attorneys standing up against it- mainly on the east coast. It is robbery
Gaslighted Equality programs puts men in an early grave.
Equality is of Responsibility and Standards, not of pick and choose outcomes via privileges and systemic discrimination.
Emasculating men, and calling that "women's Rights" contributes to the problem.
There's a "gender gap" at the Selective Service Office, sod floor of Arlington, lifespan, and in the 4x suicide rate, the cumulative effect of gaslighted Equality programs.
Perhaps a return to objectivity vs fantasy would be a start?
Objective Systems Analysis my Profession. Psychology, as construced and practiced, is the textbook clinical example of a Mass Formation Psychosis Narcissistic Pathology Paradigm at minimum by own rules out of the box. Institutional Systemic Racist Sexist Misandry in education and employment is not "Affirmative" - it is racist sexist misandry. Diversity Inclusion Equity is more word salad BS.
The mAsKs, shutdowns, and covid19 vaXX DON'T WORK. Forced coerced experimental drugs including the covid19 vaXX violate the Nuremberg Codes.
The proper model is Costs vs Benefits, Opposite Sloping Regression Lines Plotted Sum of the Least Squares, to meet in the Golden Mean Middle, least amount of objective negatives to the population. Improper model: 2 weeks to flatten the curve.
Men in women's spaces harm women. Women in men's spaces harm men. It is an Equal and Opposite Relationship. Who knew? Anyone possessing simple logic simple integrity.
Good thing you forced me out of everything
good, great sharing.
Eat meat! There is so much at stake, or should I say at steak?
Or at the very least, eat a proper diet, not one that Big Farma, Big Pharma, Big Green, or Big Woke wants you to eat. See https://www.youtube.com/@metabolicmind, for example.
Absolutely right. I've worked self-funded in suicide since 2015: suicide prevention, awareness, education, grief, treatment and recovery innovation, and more recently I've become trained/qualified as a metabolic health coach.
I'm a suicide survivor myself - loss of partner to suicide (Apr 2015) and narrowly survived my own suicide attempt (end-2015) - which was also a potential multiple homicide too. I'm very lucky and grateful now for every beautiful moment.
I was unrelentingly suicidal 2015-2021. All I wanted was to die, trapped (which is a big factor in how people feel when suicidal) because I knew what suicide does to bereaved loved ones.
Diet changed things massively for me, and understanding inflammation - which is a feedback loop from brain-to-body-to-brain-to-body-etc.
Read Prof Ed Bullmore's book The Inflamed Mind.
Read Al Alvarez's 1971 seminal work on suicide The Savage God.
Read Kazimierz Dabrowski's book Positive Disintegration, and his BRILLIANT 'successor' Bill Tillier's book Personality Development through Positive Disintegration.
See https://PositiveDisintegration.com
Understanding that there is a point to the pain gave me hope, and the Theory of Positive Disintegration (TPD) explains so much.
I also learned that long-distance/marathon running (by which I was self-medicating for several years) is not good for suicide/mental disintegration nor recovery because it causes inflammation.
We must be kind to ourselves, when of course suicidal thoughts and bereavement - loads of guilt, shame, regret, rage, PTSD fractals, etc., and the demons of poor sleep - all cause very self-destructive urges and lifestyle changes.
Carbs cause inflammation. Carbs are sugar. Not all inflamed people are obese.
I've been very 'keto' for two years and mostly carnivore for nearly a year. I cook in beef dripping, lard or extra virgin olive oil. Grain/seed/veg oils are massively harmful. 'Low fat' products are very unhealthy. Full fat is healthy. If you want milk get full fat or unhomogenised, or raw. I just have double cream; about 300-450ml every day. I eat eggs, meat, fish (esp oily edible bones fish such as sardines, pilchards) a little cheese. If I want something sweet I have 70%+ dark chocolate or 100% cocoa with water, but with cream or milk is okay too. I eat avocados. Occasionally coconut. Other than that, no fruit or veg.
Each of us is different, but very very few people can be healthy through to old age as vegans and vegetarianism is quite difficult too.
Microbiome (gut health and natural 'flora' - bacteria is crucial too) and too much alcohol or regular ultra-processed foods/drinks and pharmaceuticals destroys gut flora.
Full-fat yoghurt, kefir, and fermented cabbage, etc., is generally all good for microbiome. There are other fermented foods and drinks, of various countries (cultures - excuse the pun).
I'm fit, strong, healthy, powerful, zero pharma since end-2016 (just Paracetamol and Ibuprofen because I drank some wild river water that I later learnt was killing dogs - I refused antibiotics and took three months to recover naturally, and then I was hill-running again. I mostly walk now, plus gym work and calisthenics, yoga, pilates, and I can sprint as fast as I could in my 30s, which was/is very fast. I'm 66 now.
Dr Christopher Palmer (Brain Energy book) and Dr Georgia Ede (Change Your Diet Change Your Mind book) are doing great work on keto/LCHF/carnivore and brain health.
Suicides are rising mostly globally and have been for decades, correlating with recessions especially. Besides the ratcheting emasculation of the male role/purpose, men tend not to talk about their feelings (big boys don't cry) and trauma needs an outlet or it eats away at the soul. Men are generally heavier and choose more practical and reliably engineered methods. There are many other factors. Every suicide is different. In the UK suicides lower than 10 years of age don't get recorded but they do happen.
The FDA Food Pyramid is corrupt and so is the NHS Eatwell Guide/Plate.
Happily things are changing fast now, especially UK.
https://PHCuk.org low carb training is all free.
https://LowCarbFreshwell.com is QISMET-approved for NHS.
So also is https://TheLifeStyleClub.uk (part of PHCuk.org = https://PublicHealthCollaboration.org)
Prof Tim Noakes founder of https://Nutrition-Network.org is arguably the world's greatest authority and coach/educationalist on keto/LCHF nutrition.
https://Prolongevity.co.uk is fabulous for pharmacists (because the founder Graham Phillips is the UK's top pharmacist)
The 1-day International Food Addiction Conference and 2-day PublicHealthCollaboration.org conferences are back-to-back - 17-19 May 2024 London/Croydon.
Lots more on my co-founded website at https://LiveWildLiveFree.org/resources.
Thanks for reading.
Wow. Tons of useful info here. Bless you for turning the corner, and coming back at life with new information and a new appreciation. And for sharing. Most men may not be suicidal but simply accept living in some degree of psychic and physical pain as the norm because we have grown accustomed to it and forgot what life could be without it. Not to mention that men have beem pummeled socially for years as being toxic, sexist, brutes. Enough already.
Most men are honest, decent, caring people who love those close to them and would take a bullet for them.
I know one devastated male. Makes a good living, post war vet. Always had the biggest heart.
Lured in by a woman who said she needed him after her grandmother's death. Placed herself right in his bed. I was staying there after a tornado knocked my home down. Whike I had no idea anyone was there, I heard noises in the night. I got up to find her there- my son at work. When I asked her to leave, she told me no. She absolutely would not leave. I had warned my son about her type, which was incompatible w our beliefs.
He scolded me- she was a "nice girl".
Well, she got pregnant, as things go, she left for her home on KC. She asked for money to build her home. She asked for money to build a nursery. She wanted Harry Potter, while he tried to convince her that more soft and soothing things were better for a nursery.
Yes, he participated. Now, he has no chance of building his own home.
While they had a verbal agreement for child support and visitation, she waited just a bit over those 6 months needed for him to contest her moving w his child. He didn't know that, nor did I. Shame on those attorneys who will seek to get every drop of blood out of these dads (or noncustodial parents). Now, my son pays the majority of his pay to her, to build her home & kingdom. But #what about dad? We need a new campaign.
How is a good for a child to be given a luxury life while dad is plunged into poverty? How will the child view dad, and himself? How will further generations believe it is just to go after and "get" goods? How does a healthy child prosper while dad is left in ruins. And many suicidal? How does that benefit anyone?
Futher, while my daughter and I were preparing to send her off to college we encountered a young teller. This you g woman admitted how hard it is to get the education need these days. Said the only way is to get pregnant. This should be criminal, especially when she pursues him.
Women can be wiley. Let's get back to the "get to know you" courting period before giving ones heart. It's best to let the head be in charge as one discern if a person is right and just and in line w your culture and values. It's important to pay attention to parents also, as they see from outside. That's not to say let them rule, but let them share wisdom.
We need a new campaign to male things right "#what about dads?"
I forgot to say he was awarded 1 weekend a month visitation-all on his time & expense.
It's 3 hours away, so rather than drive 6 hrs ×2 over the weekend, and have bonding time in the car, they stay in a hotel. That's pretty costly too. And not a stable environment, leading to the further destruction of child's view of dad (then child) and dad himself . Pure insanity!
Parental Alienation is happening all over the world - and generally to men.
The number of fathers that have been denied ANY access or only have limited access to their children by the courts, is huge.
Tens of thousands of fathers are shut completely out of their children's lives by the courts in the US, in the UK and in the EU.
What the hell is happening?
Many of these fathers have spent thousands of dollars thinking lawyers will help them, only to end up broke and with minimal to no custody rights.
And suicide is almost always contemplated.
I was just told of one case in Arizona where they actually took the father's name off the birth certificates of his two children. There is now no record of him ever even being a father.
Yes suicides for men have gone up - and many of these same men would have given their lives to protect their children from EUA vaccines demanded by school districts around the world - particularly in the US - they've had no say in the life or death of their own children.
You are right.
#what about dad campaign
I love your slogan -
WHAT ABOUT DADS?
That's wonderful.
If you’re a white male in a blue collar job in California you’re screwed. My nephew was fired after October 7 because he’s Jewish and didn’t speak Spanish .....the company he worked for was owned by Egyptian Americans who hired mostly illegals. That’s what he was told to his face.
I agree completely about the psyop of the womens movement, which was created by the propagandist Edward Bernays, with sinister motives. I marched with my mother in NYC, as a child. It is all part of the depopulation scheme, and eugenics.
Maybe we should stop teaching men to not be men. It’s pretty simple. You can lift women to “equality” without trashing men. Ultimately women aren’t happy being “equal” either.
I think the Barbie movie had the right solution: as Barbie herself said near the end, “Maybe it shouldn’t be ‘It’s Barbie and Ken’, maybe instead it could be ‘It’s Barbie’ AND ‘It’s Ken’”
Lording themselves over women doesn’t make men happy. Pursuing their own individual passions and dreams in a society that respects the individual and requires work, honesty and responsibility is what makes men (and women) happy. And when we’re doing what fulfills us, we need not resort you outsourcing our satisfaction to a de facto servant. That’s the old model of relationships. The new model is one of mutual respect, empathy and support between individuals who choose each other for their capacity to encourage each other’s higher development.
Lots of men still think the pie is limited and sharing a slice with a woman means having less for themselves. That’s just wrong. Thus one factor in the increasing male despair. Used to be just female despair, and nobody cared. That was wrong! But it works both ways. Neither side will be happy until a healthy, cooperative balance is reached.
Manipulation of the masses started a long time ago media saturation people at the top gave orders to media to distract the public Also make them believe it’s their fault parenting guilt economic crisis it has to be done gradually to the people so it works use the White House to show it’s ok to look like that wake up America watch out for those news omg how awful that happen to them See it’s not so bad......
I’ve known this for years, having been a senior in high school when LBJ’s “Great Society” became law. What a tragedy as I have watched the destruction of our beloved democratic republic dissolve into the mess it is today. We are so close to losing it, as the Marxist movement continues to roll over & destroy. Started with the destruction of the family under LBJ--totally Marxist ideology leading to communism. Dumb down education, break up the family, make government debt soar, cripple families with debt & inflation, allow lies to permeate society--you get the drill. Stalin called the masses “useful idiots.” John Adams said this republic will not stand without an educated, moral electorate. Get it, yet???
This is just the beginning. I want to collect stories of the terrible things that break families-the injustices that do more harm to pur children, grandchildren and dads (and even grandparents).
I want to start a real campaign. Just leaving the workplace. I have heard so many stories. I've also heard of attorneys standing up against it- mainly on the east coast. It is robbery
There are legions of smiling misandrists on earth. There are many more that unconsciously support them.