The father, the father figure, so critical, the young black, latino, or white thug, no matter whom, once looking for a father & he is gone & mom is a crack whore, dad is a pimp dealer slanging coke
The father, the father figure, so critical, the young black, latino, or white thug, no matter whom, once looking for a father & he is gone & mom is a crack whore, dad is a pimp dealer slanging coke
head dead beat, & all junior wants is a father to guide, to instill some fear, some rules, boundaries & father is AWOL, so junior makes the street his home, the jailer his mother, the judge his father
The sick twisted government did this to black families back in the 60s when they offered mothers welfare checks if the fathers were gone from the home. Along with taking dads away, they put these poor black kids in schools that never taught them anything, they were just seat warmers until they'd had enough and left school for the streets and gangs. it's all quite sad when you think about it, the fake government claimed to care about blacks but in reality they hate them, they've used them for votes for decades, and being blacks are uneducated they believe the hype and keep voting for their enemy, the democrats.
So true. It doesn't necessarily have to be the father. It is so important for a male adult to live in the residence and get up every day and go to WORK.
South Africa is very different from the US in terms of one parent (being the mother) black households. Apartheid kept fathers away from home working on mines and in factories, leaving mothers to take care of children on their own. Many of these fathers then started new families with women closer to their place of work. And then left these women to take care of his new children on their own, and so the cycle continued. So, in South Africa the absent father existed because of an unjust social system and economic necessity.
What you describe in the US takes place to a degree in Brazil where very poor families are living in favelas and children are left to their own devices without any adult supervision because both parents have to work menial jobs just to get by.
I can't comment however on the situation in the US.
I used to help out a young kid in the early 90s when I was studying law. His mom was a cleaner in the apartment block I lived in. His father was nowhere to be seen. I used to take him to the cinema and out for meals and tried to get him interested in books and learning. At a moment of weakness, I stupidly gave him money to buy new clothes. But he never bought any new clothes. I asked him what he'd done with the money I gave him. He refused to answer me. I went to the back of the apartment block where he lived with his mom and demanded to see her. She came out and I asked her what she did with the money I'd given her son. She wouldn't answer me either. I felt taken advantage of, especially because she'd pimped her son out. Then I took a step back and realised I had no right to judge her because she was surviving any which way she could and I came from a different world where both my parents were present and I never missed a meal. But in no uncertain terms I told the boy in front of his mom that his mom had ruined it for him and I would not help him anymore. It was difficult seeing him hanging around the apartment block doing nothing after that and I could see the sadness in his eyes.
Then one day he was no longer around and nor was his mom. I felt bad but then I said they were not my responsibility.
In the US, the young have been taught to hate the values of a bunch of dead old white men based on the teachings of a bunch of old dead white men - from the European continent where much of the US population had fled from for their tyranny. It is like a demonic bugs bunny cartoon.
In an Elephant reservation that got overpopulated, they shifted a lot of young bulls to somewhere else, the sling that shifted them on to the truck was not strong enough to lift the grown up bulls, so they left them behind.
In the new reservation with the young bulls they started to find dead and mutilated Rhino's and people did not understand what had happened to these Rhino's. Until they found that the young bull Elephants were killing them. They came up with the idea to try and shift the grown up bulls which they did and the killing of the Rhino's stopped, their conclusion was that the grown up bulls were teaching the younger bulls what was right and wrong.
Part of the problem is that a couple generations of people have been brainwashed into thinking debasing patriarchy was a good idea. Dad's not needed, the government will support you instead. Watch tv and other media ads and observe how often the guy is depicted as a goofus. Every other youtube podcast video I watch seems to have that stupid insurance commercial where the idiot guy can't control his electric unicycle device and flips over the railing while the woman looks pained at his incompetence. People were sold a bill of goods on "no fault divorce". Divorce parties are now apparently a "thing". Men detach from berating wives, and hunker down in video games and porn and online gambling. (All of that isn't to excuse men who do bad things too.) But society cannot succeed if it becomes 'matriarchal'; that is just another term for communism/marxism. Without strong, morally-based men willing to do the right thing in spite of non-rational, emotion-based attacks on their unique family roles, the spiral downward will continue into full totalitarianism. Men and women are not the same, nor are their roles in the family and society. Wake up people!
You nail it! Years ago raw & honest was the way. Children were to “be seen & not heard”. Then culture changed were children became the center. Every child wins by schools. “Every child succeeds” by congress! Excuse me, not every child wins or succeeds! Parents have their blame also. Schools now throw everyone in the same class and tell the teacher to teach to the standards. The entire system is meant to fail. Congress did not do well with every child succeeds! Or schools every child wins! Educators are not educating any longer when they are made to be probation officers, testing to each child, teaching to each child, with one teacher and 30 students from failing students, trouble students, none english speakers or parents trying to survive....just entire national ruin.
The sick twisted government did this to black families back in the 60s when they offered mothers welfare checks if the fathers were gone from the home. Along with taking dads away, they put these poor black kids in schools that never taught them anything, they were just seat warmers until they'd had enough and left school for the streets and gangs. it's all quite sad when you think about it, the fake government claimed to care about blacks but in reality they hate them, they've used them for votes for decades, and being blacks are uneducated they believe the hype and keep voting for their enemy, the democrats.
Why does a woman think that raising a child without a father present is a good idea?
I am so sick and tired of "struggling" single mothers. Where is baby daddy?
Did you have sex with a dirtbag? You know that if you did, your child then has dirtbag DNA.
So...ladies...how about being more selective.
So true. It doesn't necessarily have to be the father. It is so important for a male adult to live in the residence and get up every day and go to WORK.
Absolutely. They don’t have to be perfect they just NEED TO BE THERE.
Sounds like you just described Hunter Biden’s upbringing.
Hi Paul,
South Africa is very different from the US in terms of one parent (being the mother) black households. Apartheid kept fathers away from home working on mines and in factories, leaving mothers to take care of children on their own. Many of these fathers then started new families with women closer to their place of work. And then left these women to take care of his new children on their own, and so the cycle continued. So, in South Africa the absent father existed because of an unjust social system and economic necessity.
What you describe in the US takes place to a degree in Brazil where very poor families are living in favelas and children are left to their own devices without any adult supervision because both parents have to work menial jobs just to get by.
I can't comment however on the situation in the US.
I used to help out a young kid in the early 90s when I was studying law. His mom was a cleaner in the apartment block I lived in. His father was nowhere to be seen. I used to take him to the cinema and out for meals and tried to get him interested in books and learning. At a moment of weakness, I stupidly gave him money to buy new clothes. But he never bought any new clothes. I asked him what he'd done with the money I gave him. He refused to answer me. I went to the back of the apartment block where he lived with his mom and demanded to see her. She came out and I asked her what she did with the money I'd given her son. She wouldn't answer me either. I felt taken advantage of, especially because she'd pimped her son out. Then I took a step back and realised I had no right to judge her because she was surviving any which way she could and I came from a different world where both my parents were present and I never missed a meal. But in no uncertain terms I told the boy in front of his mom that his mom had ruined it for him and I would not help him anymore. It was difficult seeing him hanging around the apartment block doing nothing after that and I could see the sadness in his eyes.
Then one day he was no longer around and nor was his mom. I felt bad but then I said they were not my responsibility.
One of the best things Paul has ever written. Very eloquently and truthfully put💥🔨
Sounds more like the thugs are quoting a social worker in order to gain your sympathy and take advantage of your kindness and compassion.
In the US, the young have been taught to hate the values of a bunch of dead old white men based on the teachings of a bunch of old dead white men - from the European continent where much of the US population had fled from for their tyranny. It is like a demonic bugs bunny cartoon.
In an Elephant reservation that got overpopulated, they shifted a lot of young bulls to somewhere else, the sling that shifted them on to the truck was not strong enough to lift the grown up bulls, so they left them behind.
In the new reservation with the young bulls they started to find dead and mutilated Rhino's and people did not understand what had happened to these Rhino's. Until they found that the young bull Elephants were killing them. They came up with the idea to try and shift the grown up bulls which they did and the killing of the Rhino's stopped, their conclusion was that the grown up bulls were teaching the younger bulls what was right and wrong.
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Blacks were on pace to surpass whites as far as careers and salary were concerned. Then came the welfare checks.
Part of the problem is that a couple generations of people have been brainwashed into thinking debasing patriarchy was a good idea. Dad's not needed, the government will support you instead. Watch tv and other media ads and observe how often the guy is depicted as a goofus. Every other youtube podcast video I watch seems to have that stupid insurance commercial where the idiot guy can't control his electric unicycle device and flips over the railing while the woman looks pained at his incompetence. People were sold a bill of goods on "no fault divorce". Divorce parties are now apparently a "thing". Men detach from berating wives, and hunker down in video games and porn and online gambling. (All of that isn't to excuse men who do bad things too.) But society cannot succeed if it becomes 'matriarchal'; that is just another term for communism/marxism. Without strong, morally-based men willing to do the right thing in spite of non-rational, emotion-based attacks on their unique family roles, the spiral downward will continue into full totalitarianism. Men and women are not the same, nor are their roles in the family and society. Wake up people!
You nail it! Years ago raw & honest was the way. Children were to “be seen & not heard”. Then culture changed were children became the center. Every child wins by schools. “Every child succeeds” by congress! Excuse me, not every child wins or succeeds! Parents have their blame also. Schools now throw everyone in the same class and tell the teacher to teach to the standards. The entire system is meant to fail. Congress did not do well with every child succeeds! Or schools every child wins! Educators are not educating any longer when they are made to be probation officers, testing to each child, teaching to each child, with one teacher and 30 students from failing students, trouble students, none english speakers or parents trying to survive....just entire national ruin.