male dominated world! Men have gotten a bad rap too and the move to relegate men, to destroy their images, role, demasculinate them, feminize them, alpha role, strength; both needs deep discussion
KT, self-absorption was once known as navel gazing. People don’t seem to have enough to do. The pandemic lockdowns exasperated this sickness. I liked it when in the past women enjoyed being beautiful in the most classical sense. That was true freedom. Now they cover up their womanliness as they starve themselves to look like a prepubescent ten year old or eat themselves into looking like Jabba the Hutt. Freedom is not found in becoming a clothes hanger or giving into wearing a tent.
I completely agree. And frankly I don't understand why women don't appreciate normal, healthy attention from men. There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirtation. It's fun and life-affirming for both parties.
That is why God made women to be so beautiful. From Adam’s rib came exquisite refinement and now the pathological individuals in our society are doing everything they can to destroy women. Men cannot stop this. It must come from mothers who believe in their power as women. It is insane that we even have to discuss this, as it insults the intelligence we were endowed with. That is the negative impact the internet has had on the family.
Truer words were never spoken. But the people who brought thus about, the RINOS and Dems, will increasingly be socially engineering a new freak show that will make her warped thinking look positively benign. There are able bodied transgenders in wheelchairs pretending to be disabled women, others who are pursuing limb amputations along with male genital removal and replacement with surgically created female genitalia and potentially or actually women choosing to have not only mastectomy but destruction of their eyes because they identify as blind. See the article at the link on the phenomenon. The far left RINOS and Dems, at the same time as they push for the legalization of zoophile marriage and pedophilia, are bound to push also for "transableism" to become normalized and commonplace in the future.
Meet the 'Transableists': Able-Bodied Men Who Identify as Disabled Women
The article at your link provides fascinating insight (even though it made me somewhat squeamish to read.) I had come across brief references in recent years to examples of what's now known as "transableism." This is a very good treatment of the subject, accessible to a general reader. I would never have imagined an individual's mind could wander into such depths of depravity and self-hatred. Even worse are their equally misguided supporters in academia and the medical fields.
Although this quote from the article is in the context of describing patients with disordered thinking about their limbs, I think it applies across the board to all transablists and transgenderists:
"The difference with sane doctors who think about such conditions in this way (neurologically), however, is that they consider them purely as regrettable brain disorders, not wonderful examples of diversity in action which should be embraced and celebrated by all."
This was a very candid piece that is well written and honest, and the writer does comes across as authentic and knowledgeable.
This is not a world I grew up in (I'm 52) and it is difficult to relate to.
My stepdaughter is now 30 and is married. She was not really part of it either.
What comes out of it, however, is the disconnect between the online world and the real world.
Essentially the Q of: fake vs. real.
This permeates everything today, and even here on substack where people hide behind pseudonyms/noms de guerre.
In terms of violence/gratuitous violence, which is well documented on all media and espaecially mainstream with not much censorship - something I can never understand - I always find it difficult to understand how one human being can hurt another, because tomorrow you might no longer be the aggressor and then you yourself will feel the pain. I suppose violence is a physical manifestation of the online hate and bullying that turns many sickos and pussified voyeurs on.
This highly virtual world is however more prevalent in the West than it is here in South Africa.
I think the problem is slightly more subtle and nuanced than the writer suggests - and I offer this - there is a real search for identity now; for the creation of a persona.
The real world is difficult to do this in - it is brutal; however, both young women and young men are able to create a fiction of themselves on the internet and on social media apps.
Add in the IT tools for creating fakes and enhancement of eveything physical, and you can live in a fictitious world of make-believe where eventually, you can become the avatar itself.
This then descends into a wholesale mental illness which is where the West de-facto is.
I watched a movie a long time ago about a very shy, yet not unattractive, man who had a thing for his attractive lady neighbour. He would crank call her at night and tell her in explicit detail about how he would ravage her sexually. In a strange way, she did get turned on by his attention. One night, she upped the ante and told him to come over and show him in person. He was now in a quagmire - because his ego was at stake. The inevitable happended - he was simply useless in person - a shy bumbling nitwit who had no social skill nor technique, and clealry zero sexual performance skill.
So, the upshot of what I am saying is young people and even people already in their 30's need to understand that sex and intimacy is a physical act not a virtual one. Men talk a good game -exacerbated by the internet - simply a haven for anonymous and talentless cowards - but if said men were to be faced with a sexually confident and aggressive woman who knew her way around the world of lovemaking, he'd be just like the useless bloke in the movie I mentioned above.
Be confident in your personhood as male or female and then comes confidence in your sexuality is how I look at it. In early childhood, we are unaware (should be) of human sex (as a verb) until we are in our tweens. It is healthy for kids to be kids and not burdened with sexuality in all its intricacies.
Pornography directed at prepubescent girls is destroying society. It sexualizes girls before they have the capacity to make any judgement of what they are seeing. This is the new trend that is ruining women.
I was traveling up the east coast of Brazil in 1996 while I was near the end of my law degree.
I was on a budget, so my mate and I stayed mainly in youth hostels.
At the youth hostel in a city called Recife, at the breakfast table, I met a French guy. He seemed friendly and likeable. I was 25/26 at the time. He must've been 40. The beach was just down the road, so I asked him if he wanted to join me and my mate later at the beach. He obliged. I spent most of the day speaking with him. He told me about his life, about how was working on oil rigs in Brazil, about his ex-wife, how she hurt him, what France was like. I'm always interested to learn about foreign cultures. He was clearly lonely.
That night I saw him hanging around outside his room smoking a cigarette and seemingly on edge. He seemed to want to confess something to me. Then he said he had a hooker coming to visit him that night but she was a bit younger than him. No problem I said, it's his business, he needn't explain anything to me and I wished him a good night. I then saw his hooker coming to his room as I walked back to mine. She couldn't have been more than 13 or 14.
This was a scene out of the Nabakov novel Lolita where the girl is much younger than in the feature film starring Jeremy Irons.
I felt, no this is criminal.
The following morning, he was not at the breakfast table. He must've cleared out during the night, perhaps thinking I may have called the police.
I do not understand paedophilia.
It's clearly a mental illness?
Why would you want to have sex with a child?
Is it about domination and power?
Or about absolute and ultimate impunity?
Is sex not about equality with your partner and level playing fields.
Yes, I believe you are right in saying that sex with children is about physical control of what takes place and the drive to feed the ego in some meaningful way. I think to pay for sex of any kind involves these aspects. The perversion occurs in the power dynamics and like you say, the absolute ultimate impunity as pedophilia is the ultimate taboo in modern cultures. There is one exception however and that taboo is incest. Child abuse comes in many forms and to call pedophilia a mental disorder (American Psychiatric Association DSM-5) is to diminish the impact of the abuse of the victim.
Self-absorption leads to the destructive conditions she describes.
KT, self-absorption was once known as navel gazing. People don’t seem to have enough to do. The pandemic lockdowns exasperated this sickness. I liked it when in the past women enjoyed being beautiful in the most classical sense. That was true freedom. Now they cover up their womanliness as they starve themselves to look like a prepubescent ten year old or eat themselves into looking like Jabba the Hutt. Freedom is not found in becoming a clothes hanger or giving into wearing a tent.
I completely agree. And frankly I don't understand why women don't appreciate normal, healthy attention from men. There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirtation. It's fun and life-affirming for both parties.
That is why God made women to be so beautiful. From Adam’s rib came exquisite refinement and now the pathological individuals in our society are doing everything they can to destroy women. Men cannot stop this. It must come from mothers who believe in their power as women. It is insane that we even have to discuss this, as it insults the intelligence we were endowed with. That is the negative impact the internet has had on the family.
Truer words were never spoken. But the people who brought thus about, the RINOS and Dems, will increasingly be socially engineering a new freak show that will make her warped thinking look positively benign. There are able bodied transgenders in wheelchairs pretending to be disabled women, others who are pursuing limb amputations along with male genital removal and replacement with surgically created female genitalia and potentially or actually women choosing to have not only mastectomy but destruction of their eyes because they identify as blind. See the article at the link on the phenomenon. The far left RINOS and Dems, at the same time as they push for the legalization of zoophile marriage and pedophilia, are bound to push also for "transableism" to become normalized and commonplace in the future.
Meet the 'Transableists': Able-Bodied Men Who Identify as Disabled Women
https://dailysceptic.org/2024/03/05/meet-the-transableists-able-bodied-men-who-identify-as-disabled-women/
Hahaha!!!! Thanks for the forehead slap 🤦🏼♀️ I wouldn’t have believed it had I not seen it!
: ) I appreciate the "truer words" comment.
The article at your link provides fascinating insight (even though it made me somewhat squeamish to read.) I had come across brief references in recent years to examples of what's now known as "transableism." This is a very good treatment of the subject, accessible to a general reader. I would never have imagined an individual's mind could wander into such depths of depravity and self-hatred. Even worse are their equally misguided supporters in academia and the medical fields.
Although this quote from the article is in the context of describing patients with disordered thinking about their limbs, I think it applies across the board to all transablists and transgenderists:
"The difference with sane doctors who think about such conditions in this way (neurologically), however, is that they consider them purely as regrettable brain disorders, not wonderful examples of diversity in action which should be embraced and celebrated by all."
Hi Paul,
This was a very candid piece that is well written and honest, and the writer does comes across as authentic and knowledgeable.
This is not a world I grew up in (I'm 52) and it is difficult to relate to.
My stepdaughter is now 30 and is married. She was not really part of it either.
What comes out of it, however, is the disconnect between the online world and the real world.
Essentially the Q of: fake vs. real.
This permeates everything today, and even here on substack where people hide behind pseudonyms/noms de guerre.
In terms of violence/gratuitous violence, which is well documented on all media and espaecially mainstream with not much censorship - something I can never understand - I always find it difficult to understand how one human being can hurt another, because tomorrow you might no longer be the aggressor and then you yourself will feel the pain. I suppose violence is a physical manifestation of the online hate and bullying that turns many sickos and pussified voyeurs on.
This highly virtual world is however more prevalent in the West than it is here in South Africa.
I think the problem is slightly more subtle and nuanced than the writer suggests - and I offer this - there is a real search for identity now; for the creation of a persona.
The real world is difficult to do this in - it is brutal; however, both young women and young men are able to create a fiction of themselves on the internet and on social media apps.
Add in the IT tools for creating fakes and enhancement of eveything physical, and you can live in a fictitious world of make-believe where eventually, you can become the avatar itself.
This then descends into a wholesale mental illness which is where the West de-facto is.
I watched a movie a long time ago about a very shy, yet not unattractive, man who had a thing for his attractive lady neighbour. He would crank call her at night and tell her in explicit detail about how he would ravage her sexually. In a strange way, she did get turned on by his attention. One night, she upped the ante and told him to come over and show him in person. He was now in a quagmire - because his ego was at stake. The inevitable happended - he was simply useless in person - a shy bumbling nitwit who had no social skill nor technique, and clealry zero sexual performance skill.
So, the upshot of what I am saying is young people and even people already in their 30's need to understand that sex and intimacy is a physical act not a virtual one. Men talk a good game -exacerbated by the internet - simply a haven for anonymous and talentless cowards - but if said men were to be faced with a sexually confident and aggressive woman who knew her way around the world of lovemaking, he'd be just like the useless bloke in the movie I mentioned above.
I'd add that a woman need not be aggressive to be sexually confident.
Be confident in your personhood as male or female and then comes confidence in your sexuality is how I look at it. In early childhood, we are unaware (should be) of human sex (as a verb) until we are in our tweens. It is healthy for kids to be kids and not burdened with sexuality in all its intricacies.
Hi Kathleen,
I hope you are doing well.
Yes, what you have stated is 100% correct.
Much love xx
Barry
Always good to hear from you, Barry! 🥰
Pornography directed at prepubescent girls is destroying society. It sexualizes girls before they have the capacity to make any judgement of what they are seeing. This is the new trend that is ruining women.
Greetings c Anderson,
I was traveling up the east coast of Brazil in 1996 while I was near the end of my law degree.
I was on a budget, so my mate and I stayed mainly in youth hostels.
At the youth hostel in a city called Recife, at the breakfast table, I met a French guy. He seemed friendly and likeable. I was 25/26 at the time. He must've been 40. The beach was just down the road, so I asked him if he wanted to join me and my mate later at the beach. He obliged. I spent most of the day speaking with him. He told me about his life, about how was working on oil rigs in Brazil, about his ex-wife, how she hurt him, what France was like. I'm always interested to learn about foreign cultures. He was clearly lonely.
That night I saw him hanging around outside his room smoking a cigarette and seemingly on edge. He seemed to want to confess something to me. Then he said he had a hooker coming to visit him that night but she was a bit younger than him. No problem I said, it's his business, he needn't explain anything to me and I wished him a good night. I then saw his hooker coming to his room as I walked back to mine. She couldn't have been more than 13 or 14.
This was a scene out of the Nabakov novel Lolita where the girl is much younger than in the feature film starring Jeremy Irons.
I felt, no this is criminal.
The following morning, he was not at the breakfast table. He must've cleared out during the night, perhaps thinking I may have called the police.
I do not understand paedophilia.
It's clearly a mental illness?
Why would you want to have sex with a child?
Is it about domination and power?
Or about absolute and ultimate impunity?
Is sex not about equality with your partner and level playing fields.
Yes, I believe you are right in saying that sex with children is about physical control of what takes place and the drive to feed the ego in some meaningful way. I think to pay for sex of any kind involves these aspects. The perversion occurs in the power dynamics and like you say, the absolute ultimate impunity as pedophilia is the ultimate taboo in modern cultures. There is one exception however and that taboo is incest. Child abuse comes in many forms and to call pedophilia a mental disorder (American Psychiatric Association DSM-5) is to diminish the impact of the abuse of the victim.
Yes definitely worthy of report such a well written article explaining much!
Very much agree.
This is all about the corruption of government and the purposeful destruction of public health in the name of equity/communism.