not defending women and running the fraud transgender crap out of Dodge? Why are parents too feeding into this crap your son is a boy at home in the morning and girl at school bullsh*t?
So beyond over this BS!! Trying to remove Aretha Franklin song from Spotify that offends them for the term “natural woman!!”
Are ultrasound techs fired if they reveal a baby’s gender to a pregnant WOMAN (not “pregnant person”...SHE is a WOMAN if she is indeed biologically pregnant). If they aren’t getting fired yet, it’s not far down the list of insanity yet to happen. And expectant parents better forget about any of those gender reveal activities they envision doing...they’ll soon be illegal & considered hate crimes! 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
I think Aretha’s song is still safe! I dug deeper on that issue & the very new twitter account that started the whole thing has backpedaled & since changed its profile description to “parody/satire”...but it didn’t have that when it tweeted the inflammatory claim of its activist group. I think they got scared when they saw the large negative response, even among average LGBT community members. It honestly isn’t a stretch to believe they were pushing Spotify to do it, with the insanity of all the rest that’s being forced upon all of us!
But we really should all be blasting that song everywhere we can, to make ourselves quite clear!! 😄
They've been after the women AND the men for a couple of decades. It is a power against the West that has succeeded in demoralizing and emasculating men as well as women. One can argue about history, and why people subjugate other people as a philosophical question, as clearly that happens, in an evil way, repeatedly, but this is something foreign, that starts destroying BOTH men and women in childhood. What that power wants is for us to fight and hate each other, and it is not difficult to weaponize the battle of the sexes, as Kissinger (a dark triad evil person) said, but even the off the rails trans loons have been groomed and cultivated and turned into wildly labile, narcissistic, mentally ill, borderlines who value only the material and celebrity by a power not of the West. IMO.
YES - read the Willie Lynch letter from the viewpoint of this is being done to all of society now, currently, rather than debating its historical accuracy. It describes how to break a slave's spirit, how to break the spirit of a slave community - horrific abuse and death of strong men - done in front of the women/mother's and they start raising their sons to be meek and deferential. Women become the strong people in the slave group and the slave's wills are broken in just two generations. Single parenting norm - mom is the boss.
Currently black women are being elevated over everyone else except maybe for black trans women. The question to ask is why? and who is funding it? It seems to be the got bucks folks who have a Jewish history but when you look at what Israeli youth whistleblowers say - LGBT is not acceptable for an Israeli youth. Mom would break both your legs.... was a quote.
You hit the nail on the head with your comments. Particularly the emasculation of men. To answer Dr. Alexander's question, I would say the emasculation of men is a probable explanation. It's not the only reason but I think it is playing a big part. They're not speaking up for women or defending them because they are exhausted, confused, and unsure of themselves at this point, given the political and societal pressure they have been under for quite a long time. . Masculinity has been subjected to a constant attack on all fronts. As time goes by and social conditioning goes on it won't be long before men will even know that at one time in our history they actually tried to defend their women and children. That time is gone It appears that society and ruling bodies have decided to give that privilege and responsibility to the ruling classes.
Forget the knight in shining armor. He's long gone.
"Feminism" turns out to have been pushed and funded by the covert insider group as part of the plan to break up traditional partnerships and leave children in poverty with a single mom.
Jennifer, yet lots of women continue to embrace feminsim, with it's baked-in misandry, just as many Germans in the 1930s embraced Nazism, with it's baked-in hate for the Jews.
No Tom, not true feminism. I see true feminism as a necessary tool of freeing women in the past and still some places in the present from their previous status as chattel. Feminism was necessary without question. This latest woke crap is nothing to do with feminism!!
Feminism was a psyop created by the CIA and Vanderbilt. Men got a woman to pull a scam. It worked. It’s all about destroying the family unit to eventually remove women from the picture. The Patriarchs fantasy coming to fruition. The foundation of Roe VS Wade case was found out to be a complete scam. People need to study a bit deeper than the surface.
Jim, it's even worse than that. Aaron Russo told Alex Jones that his former friend, Nick Rocky Feller, told him that their family funded feminism to collect taxes from working women, to get children into day care, where they could be indoctrinated by the State., and to destabilize society. Also, hate for men was hard-baked into feminism, just as hate for Jews was hard-baked into Nazism.
That absolutely does not surprise me!!! I'm almost 70 and was right in the midst abd I could see that agenda CLEAR AS DAY! and this turned the kids & following generations up to be totally dysfunctional humans. :-(
Laura, feminism incorporated misandry (that means hate for men) as part of it's program, just as Nazism incorporated hate for Jews as part of it's program. Everyone likes to ignore those inconvenient truths. Besides, I don't see feminists demanding that women be required to register for the military draft, do you?
Hi Paul, and not really on topic (well kinda), but I can fairly say as I watched it happen. On the average, for at least the last 35 years or so they have not had it nearly "as difficult" as it has been espoused. In fact, it is men, that have been getting wrecked. Seriously wrecked.
Both are. Women have bought the lie that we should be men basically. Childbearing, homemaking, caring and tending..these are the things we were enticed into giving up to be at work all day and send our kids to daycare. Humanity is under attack.
Feminists have been disparaging men so harshly and for so long that there is no reason why any man would want to defend any woman at this point, unless the woman is an immediate relative.
We have been told over and over ad nauseum that all men are bad, masculinity is bad, and that no man has the right to even have an opinion on whether his own child should be aborted, only the obligation to support it depending solely on what the woman chooses.
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."
"I don't need no man."
Feminists created this mess with their implacable hatred of men. Let them solve their own problems now.
Femisim destroyed the nuclear family. I was around in the late 60’s & after & newly married. The pressure to go out & get a career & not be JUST a stay at home Mom was horrible. That was the ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ era. Never the two shall understand each other. It’s tragic. We could have done so much better, not demeaning stay at home Moms or the women who wanted or needed to get a career. We certainly could have done better in our relationships with men. I was in my 40’s when I finally got it together & grew up.
Feminism was a Big Business (remember them) psyop to get two workers for the price of one. Women were brainwashed to feel unfulfulled if they managed the home and raised children. Instead, the path to enlightenment went through corporate America after you paid someone else to raise your kids and clean your house. Wives now could compete with husbands for the same corporate dollar enabling the Man to keep wages stagnant and increase productivity while at the same time undermining the notion of the family.
Laura, Do YOU stand up for men? Such as the fact that women are exempt from the draft, and the fact that there are 4 times more male suicides? The only women that do that do that are the non-feminist women that respect and validate men. .
I would contend women have had it better in The West for millennia, vs. any other place on the globe. Which is perhaps why this coddled gender has become insufferably Leftist, single and degenerate the past 50 years. I admire the women of the turn of the 20th century, who were staunchly conservative, and helped men kick addictions such as alcohol, all while raising fantastic families.
I think the entire world has been inverted, and we all are looking to our ancestors as a model. Degeneracy is not sustenance or joy. It leads to ever darker places.
I consider myself a strong woman without the need to put men down or to downplay their importance in my life or in society, in general. We need strong men and women, more now than ever. We will never be men nor should we be trying and vice versa. The scales always tip too far. Society has gone over the edge with this BS. It is a dismantling of society and of humanity. I never agree with women who think they do no wrong and belly ache all the time. No need to wonder why our society is so fragile and toe-the-line to all the 'hurt' feelings. Women and men need to unite.
Why should men defend women from transgenderism when it is women who are the ones imposing it? The trans nonsense is enforced by female-dominated HR departments and school administration, and it is invariably the female parent that encourages/affirms transgenderism in children. Women created this mess, women can clean it up.
False. Endocrine disrupting chemicals created this and we are not supposed to talk about glyphosate or organophosphate pesticides.
Trans/gender dysphoria is real and is happening to little kids more and more - because of the toxic modern chemicals and maybe traditional vak too and soy formula should NEVER be used for baby boys. EVER at least not for the majority of feedings.
Women/mothers may be more supportive of the real kids - but there is also a huge heavily financed push for the sterilizing hormones and surgeries. I don't think average mothers are pushing for their kids to be sterilized early in life.
The critical thinkers need to see that both men and women are being disrespected and abused by the politicization and denial of the real causes of gender dysphoria. Agriculture chemicals are going to cause the problem to continue increasing in %. The agricultural chemicals and BPA and other endocrine disruptors need to be banned.
The west has given women the most power and privilege without accountability and while imbuing women with some sort of sainthood as if they are innocent and can do no harm and must be protected above all others.
The west is purely gynocentric. Men are demonized and marginalized and boys and men are shamed. Boys have their genitals mutilated in the USA, and get lectured on how to treat girls, but do we have honor for boys? Do we instruct girls and women to respect and honor boys and men? NO.
A very brief bullet point list of men and boys’ issues follows. For a slight amplification of what these issues entail – but still in brief – read the Introduction to the Disadvantages faced by Men and Boys.
Educational disadvantage of boys, from aged 5 to university.
Lack of recognition of, or assistance for, male victims of partner abuse.
Men’s shorter life expectancy.
Substantially less research funding on men-only diseases compared with women-only diseases.
Averaged over the last five years, the male suicide rate in England was 3.3 times that of females (in Wales, 4.3 times), suicide being the commonest cause of death in males under 45.
Men have virtually no paternity rights.
Paternity fraud is rife, is extremely damaging to men and children, but society regards it as just fine.
Fathers are greatly disadvantaged in child contact arrangements after partner separation.
False allegations are commonly used as a tactic against men in the family courts.
At any point in time, one in four fathers do not live with their children (under 16), most often against their wishes.
Only about 50% of fathers will live with their dependent children continuously to their 16th birthday.
The bar is being ever lowered on what is regarded as sexual assault by males on females, whilst the penalties are becoming more severe. The result is that women have the power to destroy a man for minor offences or issues of perception.
In contrast, sexual assault of males (of all ages) by females remains largely unrecognised by society and the criminal justice system alike.
Grossly inequitable treatment of men and women in the criminal justice system. Three out of every four men in prison would not be there if they were treated like women.
Whilst we hear a great deal about the “pay gap”, the power must surely reside with who spends the money. Women certainly spend at least as much money as men, whoever earns it.
For full time workers under 40 years old the gender pay-rate gap is negligible.
For part time workers the gender pay-rate gap is in favour of women (about 5%).
Men work 609 million hours per week at paid work compared to women’s 394 million hours. Men also work for more continuous years over life. Hence, men work more and are home less – this is contribution, not privilege.
We hear a great deal about men not pulling their weight as regards domestic and childcare chores, but studies show that totalling all work, men and women work about the same number of hours.
Men are 96% of workplace fatalities, and are far more likely to suffer injuries at work or to get work related diseases than women.
Women seek “equality” with men only in desirable occupations (consultants, professors, Board members, MPs, etc) not in the jobs that 99% of men do – the nasty, dirty, dangerous jobs that lead to the above fatalities.
Men (or boys) are more likely to be the victims of violence than women (or girls) – despite the constant exhortations that we should “end violence against women”.
Around 90% of homeless rough sleepers are men.
99% of war deaths and casualties are men.
Female genital mutilation is illegal and universally reviled. Male genital mutilation is regarded as perfectly acceptable and without disbenefit to the man (it isn’t). Half a million African boys killed or maimed in the last eight years by botched circumcisions goes unnoticed.
Female suffering is newsworthy, male suffering is not (e.g., Boko Haram – how many people know that their main activity is killing boys?).
There is a lack of action on under-representation of men in certain professions, contrasting with the huge focus on assisting women into areas where they are under-represented (e.g., STEM, though women now dominate in STEMM).
Male-only organisations have systematically been obliged to accept females, whilst the reverse is not true.
History is being systematically misrepresented as gendered oppression, rather than the oppression of the many, of both sexes, by the few, of both sexes. Both sexes had to fight for the vote; both sexes had to fight to be educated.
For a little more detail on these issues read the Introduction to the Disadvantages faced by Men and Boys.
Men are not disposable and self-sacrificial pawns.
This is such a gynocentric and undignified viewing of man.
Men don't owe anyone anything, especially in a society where the legal system seeks to destroy men and were women are taught that men are evil and the source of all ills - the "patriarchy".
Look at the video series I linked from Janice Fiamengo. There is NO PATRIARCHY. There is gynocentrism. There is the explotation of man by demonizing him and shaming him and subjugating him and controlling him with the screwed up marriage laws, family law, child support laws, alimony, genital mutilation, the draft, and the overall hatred of men like we see is so rampant like the hastags on Twitter that say "#KillAllMen"...
Can't you see this?
Men are fed up. Men are not toy soldiers to play with, not masochistic beasts of burden or walking ATM machines.
So tired of conservatives and liberals both treating men like inhuman servants.
That is all fairly true - look at this as a covert group with a lot of money who has spent decades, a century or more, to break up traditional partnerships and exploit women and children more.
Yes men have it bad in many ways and the emasculating is real and very bad - and I have written about it.
Please read the Willie Lynch letter and think about it in current terms as something that has been done to everyone currently, not just black slaves in the 1700s. Not the best copy, but it is readable https://archive.org/details/WillieLynchLetter1712/mode/2up
We need more people to see the politicization of trans as part of the power grab. The more children living in poverty, the more children at risk of being trafficked with no one financially able to look into it, or fight back if it was the state that took the child. The Foster Child system has been used to traffic children. The border children are currently being released into trafficker's control.
Really, really bad people are breaking up society on purpose. We need critical thinkers like you to see that both men and women and children are being harmed by those in charge of media and government.
I disagree with the word, "fairly", being used in the first sentence. Why add a level of incredulity and softening? It IS true.
My heart is with boys and men because they are so neglected and there is far less specialized and specific support for them.
Men don't get empathy like women or children. This idea is explored in the book, "The Empathy Gap", by William Collins. As a result, less time, less understanding, less funds to men of various ages.
The dehumanization is disgusting. The shaming to be self sacrificial is disgusting.
I make no compromise or apology. I'm fed up and I refuse to share or help with those that seem me as morally inferior or as a pack mules/human meat shield, etc.
I don't disagree with what you say...but, focusing on different demographics is important because when we generalize to the level of human suffering, we obfuscate disproportionate and more specific suffering
of particular groups and we then don't know how to allocate time and resources because the details are hidden...the result of the mainstream hiding the stats on boys and men and refusing to speak about male issues...results in what we have, today.
Men's rights groups are already proactively tagged as "misogyny", as if even a man talking about the possibility of him being mistreated in the legal system or socially/culturally is unacceptable.
To add insult to injury the USA traumatized and mutilates boys genitals and sells the human foreskin fibroblasts online.
This is some dystopian disgusting dehumanizing garbage.
No need to use the word, "fairly". I'm no longer apologetic nor do I use euphemism. Boys and men are exploited and shamed into being productive by society's gynocentric standards.
Not fairly true, just true.
A look at those links confirm this.
Men are raised to not care about themselves or to develop boundaries to even register when they are being mistreated. Raised as masochistic beasts of burden. Other men encourage this in other men, women encourage this, too...men are put in a very narrow identity by society that disallows the development of healthy boundaries and proper healthful lifestyles...look at the male life expectancy, when has it ever been equal with a woman's?
Excuse the typos, it's late. I might edit any typos later.
It is early morning for me. Have a look at the Willie Lynch letter after you wake up.
"Fair and True" ~ My point is that both males and females have been manipulated for a long time. Yes, males tend to die earlier, but husbands, less early. There is goodness in a balanced relationship and the powers that be have been manipulating both sexes into greater division and worse treatment of each other.
Police don't even look into murders of poor women/women who might be working in the adult industry somehow, or the mass murder of the Korean massage therapists. Women like that get a code "NHI" = no human involved. In the UK girls are being trafficked and it isn't looked into. Men get let off of a murder charge if they just claim it was "rough sex".
Males don't have it good. And females don't have it good currently.
And as a prenatal educator I actively sought out literature against the risks of circumcision and educated all my prenatal clients about it and that the foreskins are sold for profit. Sadly, I learned, many women, just go with -"It should look like the dad's." It is a really bad practice that maims more than a few boys. TRUE. NOT FAIR! Also kind of gross when you learn that the "religious" practice is for an old male Rabbi to suck the poor baby's wound. That is just disgusting and likely transferring parasites to the baby. Sickos are in charge. Please blame the sicko's in charge rather than focusing only on women.
Why should Korean massage experts fear for their lives in the US? The US didn't even make any kind of formal apology to Korea. The news story was just hushed up extremely fast. NO Human Involved - just Korean immigrants. Just something to be used and thrown away because they made the mistake of being in a health service field that is extremely disrespected in the US.
Sicko's are in charge. Please recognize that sicko's with money hire the pop stars, hire the talk show hosts, and hire the politicians too.
For copying/pasting purposes. Save for your feminazi war bank.
DATA FROM USA:
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
According to Harvard Medical School and NIH, women initiate 70% of domestic violence. Then they cry victim.
At the state level, the New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence conducted a survey on male victims of domestic violence. The survey concluded, “The alarming number of men in New Hampshire who have experienced sexual and physical assault underscores the need for effective violence prevention, for information, and support for victims.” (6)
Unfortunately, the Violence Against Women Act served to create a narrative that ascribes all domestic violence incidents to men’s need for “patriarchal power and control” (7). This narrative precludes the possibility that women also could be abusive.
NUMBER OF CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS IN THE USA IN 2020 BY PERPETRATOR RELATIONSHIP:
Maternal 221,372
Paternal 138,803
Maternal with non parent 32,064
Paternal with non parent 6,910
Numbers don’t lie. Feminist agenda does.
Stop saying fathers can have custody if we can prove we aren’t abusive. Fathers aren’t the number 1 concern.
72% of all child deaths happen at the maternal home either by the maternal person or her boyfriend. - child maltreatment reports released yearly by the federal government.
The AABB (American Association of Blood Banks), which accredits DNA testing labs, released its findings about paternity testing in a landmark 1999 report. The report states that 30 percent of DNA paternity tests nationwide turn out negative.
A recent national survey conducted by YouGov reveals 8% of Americans report being falsely accused of domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, or other forms of abuse. The 2,407 survey respondents were representative of the U.S. adult population. The 8% figure represents 20.4 million adults.
In 62% of cases, the false accusers were reported to be females. Often, the false allegation was made in the context of a child custody dispute — 27% of cases.
Did you see Dr. Paul advertise some lady's Substack on how men should be in relationships? Lol, it was month or two ago...I just didn't have the energy to comment....
I'm fed up with this line of bull.
Men being treated like cavemen, and men actually acting like it and accepting it. It's a slave mentality. Where's the dignity?
How we treat ourselves is how we train others to treat us.
Look at the Australian Brotherhood FB page and see all of the women that have murdered men that get off easy...
Women have been emboldened to hit men and expect them to not fight back.
Look at the DV stats and endtodv website...women lead in many categories and men are not taken seriously when they report.
Women making false accusations often don't even get punished. This destroys the man's job, scholarships, college attendance, reputation - many men are driven to suicide. And women don't often get penalized or very lightly.
Women legitimately have more power than most men - the only exception is a super rich and well connected man having a better chance of getting away with terrible things.
This is really sidestepping my point - that big bucks people in charge of media and pop star producing and talk show host hiring and comedy show writers are all instigating these problems and letting bad people get through corrupt court systems while good people are misunderstood.
In domestic violence what sadly happens is the abused person is a basket case and doesn't present well.in court, while the abuser feels the victim, claims to be a victim, and presents just give because they aren't really the victim anymore, may have been as a child.
Women can be abusers and lesbian relationships have a significant amount of domestic violence but so do homosexual male relationships and statistics show that while a woman might "physically assault " a man, it is more often women who suffer serious physical injuries.
There are rich people paying for subversive actions on society and have been for a long time. Fighting them needs to be a goal instead of cooperating with their plan to create gender division and a fractured society.
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, p. 403-26)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracurricular activities.
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
Father Factor in Drug and Alcohol Abuse – Researchers at Columbia University found that children living in a two-parent household with a poor relationship with their father are 68% more likely to smoke, drink, or use drugs compared to all teens in two-parent households. Teens in single mother households are at a 30% higher risk than those in two-parent households.
70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
Father Factor in Incarceration – Even after controlling for income, youths in father-absent households still had significantly higher odds of incarceration than those in mother-father families. Youths who never had a father in the household experienced the highest odds. A 2002 Department of Justice survey of 7,000 inmates revealed that 39% of jail inmates lived in mother-only households. Approximately 46% of jail inmates in 2002 had a previously incarcerated family member. One-fifth experienced a father in prison or jail.
Father Factor in Crime – A study of 109 juvenile offenders indicated that family structure significantly predicts delinquency. Adolescents, particularly boys, in single-parent families were at higher risk of status, property and person delinquencies. Moreover, students attending schools with a high proportion of children of single parents are also at risk. A study of 13,986 women in prison showed that more than half grew up without their father. 42% grew up in a single-mother household and 16% lived with neither parent.
Father Factor in Child Abuse – Compared to living with both parents, living in a single-parent home doubles the risk that a child will suffer physical, emotional, or educational neglect. The overall rate of child abuse and neglect in single-parent households is 27.3 children for every 1,000, whereas the rate of overall maltreatment in two-parent households is 15.5 for every 1,000.
Daughters of single parents without a Father involved are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 711% more likely to have children as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a pre-marital birth and 92% more likely to get divorced themselves.
Adolescent girls raised in a 2 parent home with involved Fathers are significantly less likely to be sexually active than girls raised without involved Fathers.
43% of U.S. children live without their father [U.S. Department of Census]
90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
75% of all suicides are male. [NB: Research by Beyond Blue has found that 75% of male suicide attempts attended by ambulance services were not linked to current mental health symptoms.]
85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows for all God’s Children]
70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [U.S. Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [U.S. D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]
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I'm focusing on those that don't receive help and are demonized, blamed and shamed. I'm focusing on boys and men.
Saying that both suffer just hides how much more men are being affected, how much more the laws are actually against men, compared to women - family court, marriage law, paternity fraud, genital integrity rights (which men don't even have at all).
Across the board, women ARE MORE PRIVELEGED and PROTECTED, and given the benefit of the doubt time and time again.
Yeah, we're being divided. That doesn't change anything I've said or the fact that boys and men are not legal equals to women - the law itself doesn't view men as equals for the reasons I've already outlined.
Yeah I agree with most of what you're saying except for your minimization of the stats of domestic violence and weaponization of the court system against men.
You still seem to be minimizing that. Coercive control, threat of legal action through custody battles and divorce court is employed more by women against men.
You're looking at one specific kind of classification of DV.
More serious injuries? Women are hitting men more and men are not hitting back - this is non reciprocal DV. It doesn't matter if the injury is serious or not, hitting someone is wrong, and these women know they can get away with it.
Lesbian relationships have a lot more DV than homosexual male relationships and hetero relationships have the least of all.
I agree that they're trying to divide us.
Regardless, people still refuse to see what is happening to men, and people are more than willing to exaggerate what women are going through while ignoring men.
Look at any of the links I posted if you really want to know more.
Not nearly as many people are focusing on what is happening to boys and men. So I'm focusing on an extremely underserved section of the population - less served than women, since women are and have been the sole focus since at least the 12th century AD in Europe since the advent gynocentric chivalric code when boys and men began to be exploited by the aristocracy - as outlined at gynocentrism.com
You're still trying to minimize female abusers and all the ways they deceive, get other men to commit violence on their behalf (hiring hitmen), driving men to suicide via false accusation, coercive control, etc.
Women are JUST as violent as men are. Women just use different tactics, paternity fraud, false accusations, family court custody battles, etc.
Data from USA:
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
NUMBER OF CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS IN THE USA IN 2020 BY PERPETRATOR RELATIONSHIP:
Maternal 221,372
Paternal 138,803
Maternal with non parent 32,064
Paternal with non parent 6,910
Numbers don’t lie. Feminist agenda does.
Stop saying fathers can have custody if we can prove we aren’t abusive. Fathers aren’t the number 1 concern.
72% of all child deaths happen at the maternal home either by the maternal person or her boyfriend. - child maltreatment reports released yearly by the federal government.
Let’s explore what states are contributing to in our society by refusing to admit there is a monetary gain through federal child support reimbursement payments which are triggered by making dad an every other weekend visitor to his own children in family courts and letting one parent have ownership of everything through “custodial parent”.
The havoc being wrecked on our society to get that 90 billion a year paid to the states through Title IV-D Funding instead of passing equal shared parenting laws.
70% of divorces are initiated by women. This is according to a 2015 research study conducted by the American Sociological Association (ASA) which suggests two-thirds of all divorces are initiated by women. Among college educated women, this number jumps up to 90%.
Men and boys are underserved. I put my resources with them because they barely get any.
More men get raped in the USA than women if you include prison.
Child support is forced on boys that were statutory raped by their teachers. Imagine paying your rapist for 18 years.
Imagine watching Sandra Bullock laughs about using foreskin cream on her face with Ellen DeGeneres. Look it up
Women do have it better. By and large.
There's a finite amount of attention and funds and women get most of it. Men are underserved.
My body my choice, but not for men....at least a boy's penis can't be argued to be a separate life...
We don't have basic rights to our bodies.
Women have more legal protection than men and more control over their bodies.
Look at the Janice Fiamengo files video series I linked if you really want to know about feminism.
False accusations have jailed many men, ruined reputations, lost jobs.
Paternity Fraud. Women don't even get penalized for lying about that and the man still pays child support even if he finds out later the kid wasn't his.
Custody battles men routinely lose, even though many other countries do a default 50/50.
Don't get me started on the draft/selective service system.
Being forced into war by a country that has mutilated and shamed you, lol. What a joke.
Women legitimately have it better.
You know the prison sentence gap? Women get lesser sentences for a crime as compared to when a man commits that crime. Yep, by a lot, too.
The list goes on.
I'm helping boys and men because I'm called to. Not because I have anything against women, but because growing up I've felt ignored and shamed and taught to not have boundaries or to even have any dignity really. I've worked through most of it in various therapy modalities like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR and more....
Anyways, when you say "both genders suffer", you hide the ways in which men uniquely suffer more, and that seems dangerous because people already ignore men. Hell, men ignore themselves.
"The mass of men lead quiet lives of desperation".
Society as a whole is at fault.
Gynocentrism harms men and women. We should honor and respect and have love and empathy for both sexes.
All the aforementioned links I've posted detail this.
Also, lots of women get away with domestic violence. The majority of non reciprocal domestic violence is perpetrated by women. They hit men and men don't hit back.
Think of all the movies that have women slapping men in the face. Girls grow up watching that. Seeing women slap men in the face and kick them in the groin.
It's not okay.
A man's pain is funny to raunchy comedy America. Circumcision jokes, don't drop the soap in prison rape jokes, it's disgusting.
Edmond, also: sex discrimination against men is right out in the open, endorsed by the feminists in Human Resources, and rubber-stamped by senior executives of both sexes.
Jennifer, when female teachers rape underage boys in their class, the media says that they "had sex" - the fact that the teacher raped the boy is ignored or covered up. The female teachers very often get off with a slap on the wrist - some even keep their teacher's license.
Doc Alexander has asked the question "Where are the men?" He has much to catch up on on this issue! The average man has been checking out of a society that is constantly disparaging men for being masculine, now termed toxic. The social engineers in the employ of the pyramid cap have been hard at work for the last 50 years and the result is that many men are turning their backs on a society that does not value or appreciate the male gender. To whit family formation is at an all time low and getting worse. Only 6 in 1,000 men are now getting married as a box checked off for the 'Cap.'
The Feminazis got what they wanted. Now men dressed like women are the ones who get preferential treatment in the job market and leadership roles, AND they're dominating women's sports.
So beyond over this BS!! Trying to remove Aretha Franklin song from Spotify that offends them for the term “natural woman!!”
Are ultrasound techs fired if they reveal a baby’s gender to a pregnant WOMAN (not “pregnant person”...SHE is a WOMAN if she is indeed biologically pregnant). If they aren’t getting fired yet, it’s not far down the list of insanity yet to happen. And expectant parents better forget about any of those gender reveal activities they envision doing...they’ll soon be illegal & considered hate crimes! 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Dear God. I just bought a 6 month membership with Spotify because I thought they were less anal than YouTube. Now I really want that song.
I think Aretha’s song is still safe! I dug deeper on that issue & the very new twitter account that started the whole thing has backpedaled & since changed its profile description to “parody/satire”...but it didn’t have that when it tweeted the inflammatory claim of its activist group. I think they got scared when they saw the large negative response, even among average LGBT community members. It honestly isn’t a stretch to believe they were pushing Spotify to do it, with the insanity of all the rest that’s being forced upon all of us!
But we really should all be blasting that song everywhere we can, to make ourselves quite clear!! 😄
I downloaded it this morning lol. I didn't realize how many other female singers have performed the same song over the years.
Thanks for the update!
Nothing natural about being a woman, its your pronouns that make you you.
OOOOOOH, BradO, you like to live dangerously don't you. ;-)
They've been after the women AND the men for a couple of decades. It is a power against the West that has succeeded in demoralizing and emasculating men as well as women. One can argue about history, and why people subjugate other people as a philosophical question, as clearly that happens, in an evil way, repeatedly, but this is something foreign, that starts destroying BOTH men and women in childhood. What that power wants is for us to fight and hate each other, and it is not difficult to weaponize the battle of the sexes, as Kissinger (a dark triad evil person) said, but even the off the rails trans loons have been groomed and cultivated and turned into wildly labile, narcissistic, mentally ill, borderlines who value only the material and celebrity by a power not of the West. IMO.
YES - read the Willie Lynch letter from the viewpoint of this is being done to all of society now, currently, rather than debating its historical accuracy. It describes how to break a slave's spirit, how to break the spirit of a slave community - horrific abuse and death of strong men - done in front of the women/mother's and they start raising their sons to be meek and deferential. Women become the strong people in the slave group and the slave's wills are broken in just two generations. Single parenting norm - mom is the boss.
Currently black women are being elevated over everyone else except maybe for black trans women. The question to ask is why? and who is funding it? It seems to be the got bucks folks who have a Jewish history but when you look at what Israeli youth whistleblowers say - LGBT is not acceptable for an Israeli youth. Mom would break both your legs.... was a quote.
You hit the nail on the head with your comments. Particularly the emasculation of men. To answer Dr. Alexander's question, I would say the emasculation of men is a probable explanation. It's not the only reason but I think it is playing a big part. They're not speaking up for women or defending them because they are exhausted, confused, and unsure of themselves at this point, given the political and societal pressure they have been under for quite a long time. . Masculinity has been subjected to a constant attack on all fronts. As time goes by and social conditioning goes on it won't be long before men will even know that at one time in our history they actually tried to defend their women and children. That time is gone It appears that society and ruling bodies have decided to give that privilege and responsibility to the ruling classes.
Forget the knight in shining armor. He's long gone.
50 years of feminism made men forget about women, and focus on keeping their own heads above water.
"Feminism" turns out to have been pushed and funded by the covert insider group as part of the plan to break up traditional partnerships and leave children in poverty with a single mom.
Jennifer, yet lots of women continue to embrace feminsim, with it's baked-in misandry, just as many Germans in the 1930s embraced Nazism, with it's baked-in hate for the Jews.
Feminism is why we have men in women’s restrooms.
No Tom, not true feminism. I see true feminism as a necessary tool of freeing women in the past and still some places in the present from their previous status as chattel. Feminism was necessary without question. This latest woke crap is nothing to do with feminism!!
Feminism was a psyop created by the CIA and Vanderbilt. Men got a woman to pull a scam. It worked. It’s all about destroying the family unit to eventually remove women from the picture. The Patriarchs fantasy coming to fruition. The foundation of Roe VS Wade case was found out to be a complete scam. People need to study a bit deeper than the surface.
Jim, it's even worse than that. Aaron Russo told Alex Jones that his former friend, Nick Rocky Feller, told him that their family funded feminism to collect taxes from working women, to get children into day care, where they could be indoctrinated by the State., and to destabilize society. Also, hate for men was hard-baked into feminism, just as hate for Jews was hard-baked into Nazism.
That absolutely does not surprise me!!! I'm almost 70 and was right in the midst abd I could see that agenda CLEAR AS DAY! and this turned the kids & following generations up to be totally dysfunctional humans. :-(
Absolutely!
Funny how the feminists are not demanding that women be required to register for the military draft
It’s the continuum. This woke crap grew out of feminism. Remember the pink pussy hats parade after President Trump won?
Feminism was never good or necessary. It was always about hatred toward men.
https://open.substack.com/pub/bettinaarndt/p/feminism-was-never-about-equality?utm_source=direct&r=yoyzk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGFFi6pRCnCdQTe1iG3Tw4Td9jvhY2w74
This is the true history.
There was never a good feminism.
Laura, feminism incorporated misandry (that means hate for men) as part of it's program, just as Nazism incorporated hate for Jews as part of it's program. Everyone likes to ignore those inconvenient truths. Besides, I don't see feminists demanding that women be required to register for the military draft, do you?
Misandry is an integral part of feminism. Funny how I don't see feminists demanding that women fight in wars.
Hi Paul, and not really on topic (well kinda), but I can fairly say as I watched it happen. On the average, for at least the last 35 years or so they have not had it nearly "as difficult" as it has been espoused. In fact, it is men, that have been getting wrecked. Seriously wrecked.
Both are. Women have bought the lie that we should be men basically. Childbearing, homemaking, caring and tending..these are the things we were enticed into giving up to be at work all day and send our kids to daycare. Humanity is under attack.
Feminists have been disparaging men so harshly and for so long that there is no reason why any man would want to defend any woman at this point, unless the woman is an immediate relative.
We have been told over and over ad nauseum that all men are bad, masculinity is bad, and that no man has the right to even have an opinion on whether his own child should be aborted, only the obligation to support it depending solely on what the woman chooses.
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."
"I don't need no man."
Feminists created this mess with their implacable hatred of men. Let them solve their own problems now.
And THAT is the answer to your question Paul. Adam and Eve all over again.
No! See my point above
Femisim destroyed the nuclear family. I was around in the late 60’s & after & newly married. The pressure to go out & get a career & not be JUST a stay at home Mom was horrible. That was the ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ era. Never the two shall understand each other. It’s tragic. We could have done so much better, not demeaning stay at home Moms or the women who wanted or needed to get a career. We certainly could have done better in our relationships with men. I was in my 40’s when I finally got it together & grew up.
Feminism was a Big Business (remember them) psyop to get two workers for the price of one. Women were brainwashed to feel unfulfulled if they managed the home and raised children. Instead, the path to enlightenment went through corporate America after you paid someone else to raise your kids and clean your house. Wives now could compete with husbands for the same corporate dollar enabling the Man to keep wages stagnant and increase productivity while at the same time undermining the notion of the family.
Dr Paul, you are a true gentleman and hero. Thank you for standing up for women as all good and God fearing men should💜
Laura, Do YOU stand up for men? Such as the fact that women are exempt from the draft, and the fact that there are 4 times more male suicides? The only women that do that do that are the non-feminist women that respect and validate men. .
I would contend women have had it better in The West for millennia, vs. any other place on the globe. Which is perhaps why this coddled gender has become insufferably Leftist, single and degenerate the past 50 years. I admire the women of the turn of the 20th century, who were staunchly conservative, and helped men kick addictions such as alcohol, all while raising fantastic families.
Agreed. You nailed it.
I think the entire world has been inverted, and we all are looking to our ancestors as a model. Degeneracy is not sustenance or joy. It leads to ever darker places.
I consider myself a strong woman without the need to put men down or to downplay their importance in my life or in society, in general. We need strong men and women, more now than ever. We will never be men nor should we be trying and vice versa. The scales always tip too far. Society has gone over the edge with this BS. It is a dismantling of society and of humanity. I never agree with women who think they do no wrong and belly ache all the time. No need to wonder why our society is so fragile and toe-the-line to all the 'hurt' feelings. Women and men need to unite.
Why should men defend women from transgenderism when it is women who are the ones imposing it? The trans nonsense is enforced by female-dominated HR departments and school administration, and it is invariably the female parent that encourages/affirms transgenderism in children. Women created this mess, women can clean it up.
False. Endocrine disrupting chemicals created this and we are not supposed to talk about glyphosate or organophosphate pesticides.
Trans/gender dysphoria is real and is happening to little kids more and more - because of the toxic modern chemicals and maybe traditional vak too and soy formula should NEVER be used for baby boys. EVER at least not for the majority of feedings.
Women/mothers may be more supportive of the real kids - but there is also a huge heavily financed push for the sterilizing hormones and surgeries. I don't think average mothers are pushing for their kids to be sterilized early in life.
The critical thinkers need to see that both men and women are being disrespected and abused by the politicization and denial of the real causes of gender dysphoria. Agriculture chemicals are going to cause the problem to continue increasing in %. The agricultural chemicals and BPA and other endocrine disruptors need to be banned.
10000 upvotes!!!
This is feminist rubbish.
The west has given women the most power and privilege without accountability and while imbuing women with some sort of sainthood as if they are innocent and can do no harm and must be protected above all others.
The west is purely gynocentric. Men are demonized and marginalized and boys and men are shamed. Boys have their genitals mutilated in the USA, and get lectured on how to treat girls, but do we have honor for boys? Do we instruct girls and women to respect and honor boys and men? NO.
Here is the real history of feminism.
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGFFi6pRCnCdQTe1iG3Tw4Td9jvhY2w74
https://fiamengofile.substack.com/
Here is the information on our gynocentric western society that does not hold women accountable as the adults they are.
https://gynocentrism.com/
Here are the outlooks for boys and men.
Men and Boys’ Issues in Brief
A very brief bullet point list of men and boys’ issues follows. For a slight amplification of what these issues entail – but still in brief – read the Introduction to the Disadvantages faced by Men and Boys.
Educational disadvantage of boys, from aged 5 to university.
Lack of recognition of, or assistance for, male victims of partner abuse.
Men’s shorter life expectancy.
Substantially less research funding on men-only diseases compared with women-only diseases.
Averaged over the last five years, the male suicide rate in England was 3.3 times that of females (in Wales, 4.3 times), suicide being the commonest cause of death in males under 45.
Men have virtually no paternity rights.
Paternity fraud is rife, is extremely damaging to men and children, but society regards it as just fine.
Fathers are greatly disadvantaged in child contact arrangements after partner separation.
False allegations are commonly used as a tactic against men in the family courts.
At any point in time, one in four fathers do not live with their children (under 16), most often against their wishes.
Only about 50% of fathers will live with their dependent children continuously to their 16th birthday.
The bar is being ever lowered on what is regarded as sexual assault by males on females, whilst the penalties are becoming more severe. The result is that women have the power to destroy a man for minor offences or issues of perception.
In contrast, sexual assault of males (of all ages) by females remains largely unrecognised by society and the criminal justice system alike.
Grossly inequitable treatment of men and women in the criminal justice system. Three out of every four men in prison would not be there if they were treated like women.
Whilst we hear a great deal about the “pay gap”, the power must surely reside with who spends the money. Women certainly spend at least as much money as men, whoever earns it.
For full time workers under 40 years old the gender pay-rate gap is negligible.
For part time workers the gender pay-rate gap is in favour of women (about 5%).
Men work 609 million hours per week at paid work compared to women’s 394 million hours. Men also work for more continuous years over life. Hence, men work more and are home less – this is contribution, not privilege.
We hear a great deal about men not pulling their weight as regards domestic and childcare chores, but studies show that totalling all work, men and women work about the same number of hours.
Men are 96% of workplace fatalities, and are far more likely to suffer injuries at work or to get work related diseases than women.
Women seek “equality” with men only in desirable occupations (consultants, professors, Board members, MPs, etc) not in the jobs that 99% of men do – the nasty, dirty, dangerous jobs that lead to the above fatalities.
Men (or boys) are more likely to be the victims of violence than women (or girls) – despite the constant exhortations that we should “end violence against women”.
Around 90% of homeless rough sleepers are men.
99% of war deaths and casualties are men.
Female genital mutilation is illegal and universally reviled. Male genital mutilation is regarded as perfectly acceptable and without disbenefit to the man (it isn’t). Half a million African boys killed or maimed in the last eight years by botched circumcisions goes unnoticed.
Female suffering is newsworthy, male suffering is not (e.g., Boko Haram – how many people know that their main activity is killing boys?).
There is a lack of action on under-representation of men in certain professions, contrasting with the huge focus on assisting women into areas where they are under-represented (e.g., STEM, though women now dominate in STEMM).
Male-only organisations have systematically been obliged to accept females, whilst the reverse is not true.
History is being systematically misrepresented as gendered oppression, rather than the oppression of the many, of both sexes, by the few, of both sexes. Both sexes had to fight for the vote; both sexes had to fight to be educated.
For a little more detail on these issues read the Introduction to the Disadvantages faced by Men and Boys.
From: http://empathygap.uk/
Stop man shaming.
Men need boundaries and need their own spaces.
Men are NOT free body guards.
Men are not disposable and self-sacrificial pawns.
This is such a gynocentric and undignified viewing of man.
Men don't owe anyone anything, especially in a society where the legal system seeks to destroy men and were women are taught that men are evil and the source of all ills - the "patriarchy".
Look at the video series I linked from Janice Fiamengo. There is NO PATRIARCHY. There is gynocentrism. There is the explotation of man by demonizing him and shaming him and subjugating him and controlling him with the screwed up marriage laws, family law, child support laws, alimony, genital mutilation, the draft, and the overall hatred of men like we see is so rampant like the hastags on Twitter that say "#KillAllMen"...
Can't you see this?
Men are fed up. Men are not toy soldiers to play with, not masochistic beasts of burden or walking ATM machines.
So tired of conservatives and liberals both treating men like inhuman servants.
More resources:
https://avoiceformen.com/
https://endtodv.org/
https://ncfm.org/
https://womenagainstpaternityfraud.org/
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/153607.The_Myth_of_Male_Power
https://www.amazon.com/Does-Feminism-Discriminate-Against-Men/dp/019531283X
https://a.co/d/fGP1CEZ
https://a.co/d/bOrV3NL
https://a.co/d/eMkLrMt
https://www.facebook.com/titleixforall
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Stop abusing and shaming men. Men are no more moral or immoral than women.
Sacrifice is to be inspired, genuinely - not elicited through shame.
If your society doesn't value men, they won't defend society.
We made our bed, and now we're sleeping in it.
We deserve this.
If a country needs a draft, then they don't have to actually cater to the people - they can just force people into any war they want.
Boys and men deserve honor, love, respect, boundaries, body autonomy, genital integrity, and everything else women are graced with.
Thank you, Edmond. . Very well put.. I000 upvotes!
That is all fairly true - look at this as a covert group with a lot of money who has spent decades, a century or more, to break up traditional partnerships and exploit women and children more.
Yes men have it bad in many ways and the emasculating is real and very bad - and I have written about it.
Please read the Willie Lynch letter and think about it in current terms as something that has been done to everyone currently, not just black slaves in the 1700s. Not the best copy, but it is readable https://archive.org/details/WillieLynchLetter1712/mode/2up
We need more people to see the politicization of trans as part of the power grab. The more children living in poverty, the more children at risk of being trafficked with no one financially able to look into it, or fight back if it was the state that took the child. The Foster Child system has been used to traffic children. The border children are currently being released into trafficker's control.
Really, really bad people are breaking up society on purpose. We need critical thinkers like you to see that both men and women and children are being harmed by those in charge of media and government.
I disagree with the word, "fairly", being used in the first sentence. Why add a level of incredulity and softening? It IS true.
My heart is with boys and men because they are so neglected and there is far less specialized and specific support for them.
Men don't get empathy like women or children. This idea is explored in the book, "The Empathy Gap", by William Collins. As a result, less time, less understanding, less funds to men of various ages.
The dehumanization is disgusting. The shaming to be self sacrificial is disgusting.
I make no compromise or apology. I'm fed up and I refuse to share or help with those that seem me as morally inferior or as a pack mules/human meat shield, etc.
I don't disagree with what you say...but, focusing on different demographics is important because when we generalize to the level of human suffering, we obfuscate disproportionate and more specific suffering
of particular groups and we then don't know how to allocate time and resources because the details are hidden...the result of the mainstream hiding the stats on boys and men and refusing to speak about male issues...results in what we have, today.
Men's rights groups are already proactively tagged as "misogyny", as if even a man talking about the possibility of him being mistreated in the legal system or socially/culturally is unacceptable.
To add insult to injury the USA traumatized and mutilates boys genitals and sells the human foreskin fibroblasts online.
This is some dystopian disgusting dehumanizing garbage.
No need to use the word, "fairly". I'm no longer apologetic nor do I use euphemism. Boys and men are exploited and shamed into being productive by society's gynocentric standards.
Not fairly true, just true.
A look at those links confirm this.
Men are raised to not care about themselves or to develop boundaries to even register when they are being mistreated. Raised as masochistic beasts of burden. Other men encourage this in other men, women encourage this, too...men are put in a very narrow identity by society that disallows the development of healthy boundaries and proper healthful lifestyles...look at the male life expectancy, when has it ever been equal with a woman's?
Excuse the typos, it's late. I might edit any typos later.
It is early morning for me. Have a look at the Willie Lynch letter after you wake up.
"Fair and True" ~ My point is that both males and females have been manipulated for a long time. Yes, males tend to die earlier, but husbands, less early. There is goodness in a balanced relationship and the powers that be have been manipulating both sexes into greater division and worse treatment of each other.
Police don't even look into murders of poor women/women who might be working in the adult industry somehow, or the mass murder of the Korean massage therapists. Women like that get a code "NHI" = no human involved. In the UK girls are being trafficked and it isn't looked into. Men get let off of a murder charge if they just claim it was "rough sex".
Males don't have it good. And females don't have it good currently.
And as a prenatal educator I actively sought out literature against the risks of circumcision and educated all my prenatal clients about it and that the foreskins are sold for profit. Sadly, I learned, many women, just go with -"It should look like the dad's." It is a really bad practice that maims more than a few boys. TRUE. NOT FAIR! Also kind of gross when you learn that the "religious" practice is for an old male Rabbi to suck the poor baby's wound. That is just disgusting and likely transferring parasites to the baby. Sickos are in charge. Please blame the sicko's in charge rather than focusing only on women.
Why should Korean massage experts fear for their lives in the US? The US didn't even make any kind of formal apology to Korea. The news story was just hushed up extremely fast. NO Human Involved - just Korean immigrants. Just something to be used and thrown away because they made the mistake of being in a health service field that is extremely disrespected in the US.
Sicko's are in charge. Please recognize that sicko's with money hire the pop stars, hire the talk show hosts, and hire the politicians too.
https://www.facebook.com/100070010400197/posts/pfbid02TxefdiLxWcgBmHZq9VHHRgVSuNWdMALh7tJXwcptTWvnbcCQFXLFgX9tmM3hj9uol/?mibextid=Nif5oz
For copying/pasting purposes. Save for your feminazi war bank.
DATA FROM USA:
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
According to Harvard Medical School and NIH, women initiate 70% of domestic violence. Then they cry victim.
At the state level, the New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence conducted a survey on male victims of domestic violence. The survey concluded, “The alarming number of men in New Hampshire who have experienced sexual and physical assault underscores the need for effective violence prevention, for information, and support for victims.” (6)
Unfortunately, the Violence Against Women Act served to create a narrative that ascribes all domestic violence incidents to men’s need for “patriarchal power and control” (7). This narrative precludes the possibility that women also could be abusive.
*More in link
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http://endtodv.org/pr/recent-incidents-reveal-need-to-address-long-neglected-problem-of-violent-and-abusive-women/?fbclid=IwAR0i5DTrk3Q1RB2GS1mFUDoDnyZFOFIgJzp-H79Bl8lgczaDsuV9D6CZn9M
NUMBER OF CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS IN THE USA IN 2020 BY PERPETRATOR RELATIONSHIP:
Maternal 221,372
Paternal 138,803
Maternal with non parent 32,064
Paternal with non parent 6,910
Numbers don’t lie. Feminist agenda does.
Stop saying fathers can have custody if we can prove we aren’t abusive. Fathers aren’t the number 1 concern.
72% of all child deaths happen at the maternal home either by the maternal person or her boyfriend. - child maltreatment reports released yearly by the federal government.
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/254893/child-abuse-in-the-us-by-perpetrator-relationship/
The AABB (American Association of Blood Banks), which accredits DNA testing labs, released its findings about paternity testing in a landmark 1999 report. The report states that 30 percent of DNA paternity tests nationwide turn out negative.
*More in link
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https://dnatesting.com/paternity-fraud-the-tough-realities-men-must-face/
A recent national survey conducted by YouGov reveals 8% of Americans report being falsely accused of domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, or other forms of abuse. The 2,407 survey respondents were representative of the U.S. adult population. The 8% figure represents 20.4 million adults.
In 62% of cases, the false accusers were reported to be females. Often, the false allegation was made in the context of a child custody dispute — 27% of cases.
More in link
https://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/
Edmond, thank you. Excellent post. . Let's hope Dr. Paul has an awakening from these comments, that destroy the feminist narrative.
Thank you, as well. I posted this article from Janice Fiamengo about Naomi Wolf, whom Dr. Paul is friend with...Naomi being a feminist.
https://fiamengofile.substack.com/p/voting-like-women-will-not-save-us
He replied a good bit.
Did you see Dr. Paul advertise some lady's Substack on how men should be in relationships? Lol, it was month or two ago...I just didn't have the energy to comment....
I'm fed up with this line of bull.
Men being treated like cavemen, and men actually acting like it and accepting it. It's a slave mentality. Where's the dignity?
How we treat ourselves is how we train others to treat us.
Look at the Australian Brotherhood FB page and see all of the women that have murdered men that get off easy...
Women have been emboldened to hit men and expect them to not fight back.
Look at the DV stats and endtodv website...women lead in many categories and men are not taken seriously when they report.
Women making false accusations often don't even get punished. This destroys the man's job, scholarships, college attendance, reputation - many men are driven to suicide. And women don't often get penalized or very lightly.
Women legitimately have more power than most men - the only exception is a super rich and well connected man having a better chance of getting away with terrible things.
This is really sidestepping my point - that big bucks people in charge of media and pop star producing and talk show host hiring and comedy show writers are all instigating these problems and letting bad people get through corrupt court systems while good people are misunderstood.
In domestic violence what sadly happens is the abused person is a basket case and doesn't present well.in court, while the abuser feels the victim, claims to be a victim, and presents just give because they aren't really the victim anymore, may have been as a child.
Women can be abusers and lesbian relationships have a significant amount of domestic violence but so do homosexual male relationships and statistics show that while a woman might "physically assault " a man, it is more often women who suffer serious physical injuries.
There are rich people paying for subversive actions on society and have been for a long time. Fighting them needs to be a goal instead of cooperating with their plan to create gender division and a fractured society.
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, p. 403-26)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracurricular activities.
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average.
Father Factor in Drug and Alcohol Abuse – Researchers at Columbia University found that children living in a two-parent household with a poor relationship with their father are 68% more likely to smoke, drink, or use drugs compared to all teens in two-parent households. Teens in single mother households are at a 30% higher risk than those in two-parent households.
70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
Father Factor in Incarceration – Even after controlling for income, youths in father-absent households still had significantly higher odds of incarceration than those in mother-father families. Youths who never had a father in the household experienced the highest odds. A 2002 Department of Justice survey of 7,000 inmates revealed that 39% of jail inmates lived in mother-only households. Approximately 46% of jail inmates in 2002 had a previously incarcerated family member. One-fifth experienced a father in prison or jail.
Father Factor in Crime – A study of 109 juvenile offenders indicated that family structure significantly predicts delinquency. Adolescents, particularly boys, in single-parent families were at higher risk of status, property and person delinquencies. Moreover, students attending schools with a high proportion of children of single parents are also at risk. A study of 13,986 women in prison showed that more than half grew up without their father. 42% grew up in a single-mother household and 16% lived with neither parent.
Father Factor in Child Abuse – Compared to living with both parents, living in a single-parent home doubles the risk that a child will suffer physical, emotional, or educational neglect. The overall rate of child abuse and neglect in single-parent households is 27.3 children for every 1,000, whereas the rate of overall maltreatment in two-parent households is 15.5 for every 1,000.
Daughters of single parents without a Father involved are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 711% more likely to have children as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a pre-marital birth and 92% more likely to get divorced themselves.
Adolescent girls raised in a 2 parent home with involved Fathers are significantly less likely to be sexually active than girls raised without involved Fathers.
43% of U.S. children live without their father [U.S. Department of Census]
90% of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. [U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census]
80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. [Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, pp. 403-26, 1978]
71% of pregnant teenagers lack a father. [U.S. Department of Health and Human Services press release, Friday, March 26, 1999]
75% of all suicides are male. [NB: Research by Beyond Blue has found that 75% of male suicide attempts attended by ambulance services were not linked to current mental health symptoms.]
85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. [Center for Disease Control]
90% of adolescent repeat arsonists live with only their mother. [Wray Herbert, “Dousing the Kindlers,” Psychology Today, January, 1985, p. 28]
71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. [National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools]
75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. [Rainbows for all God’s Children]
70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father. [U.S. Department of Justice, Special Report, Sept. 1988]
85% of youths in prisons grew up in a fatherless home. [Fulton County Georgia jail populations, Texas Department of Corrections, 1992]
Fatherless boys and girls are: twice as likely to drop out of high school; twice as likely to end up in jail; four times more likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems. [U.S. D.H.H.S. news release, March 26, 1999]
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I'm focusing on those that don't receive help and are demonized, blamed and shamed. I'm focusing on boys and men.
Saying that both suffer just hides how much more men are being affected, how much more the laws are actually against men, compared to women - family court, marriage law, paternity fraud, genital integrity rights (which men don't even have at all).
Across the board, women ARE MORE PRIVELEGED and PROTECTED, and given the benefit of the doubt time and time again.
gynocentrism.com explains this.
Yeah, we're being divided. That doesn't change anything I've said or the fact that boys and men are not legal equals to women - the law itself doesn't view men as equals for the reasons I've already outlined.
Yeah I agree with most of what you're saying except for your minimization of the stats of domestic violence and weaponization of the court system against men.
You still seem to be minimizing that. Coercive control, threat of legal action through custody battles and divorce court is employed more by women against men.
You're looking at one specific kind of classification of DV.
More serious injuries? Women are hitting men more and men are not hitting back - this is non reciprocal DV. It doesn't matter if the injury is serious or not, hitting someone is wrong, and these women know they can get away with it.
Lesbian relationships have a lot more DV than homosexual male relationships and hetero relationships have the least of all.
I agree that they're trying to divide us.
Regardless, people still refuse to see what is happening to men, and people are more than willing to exaggerate what women are going through while ignoring men.
Look at any of the links I posted if you really want to know more.
Not nearly as many people are focusing on what is happening to boys and men. So I'm focusing on an extremely underserved section of the population - less served than women, since women are and have been the sole focus since at least the 12th century AD in Europe since the advent gynocentric chivalric code when boys and men began to be exploited by the aristocracy - as outlined at gynocentrism.com
You're still trying to minimize female abusers and all the ways they deceive, get other men to commit violence on their behalf (hiring hitmen), driving men to suicide via false accusation, coercive control, etc.
Women are JUST as violent as men are. Women just use different tactics, paternity fraud, false accusations, family court custody battles, etc.
Data from USA:
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
More in link
http://endtodv.org/pr/recent-incidents-reveal-need-to-address-long-neglected-problem-of-violent-and-abusive-women/?fbclid=IwAR0i5DTrk3Q1RB2GS1mFUDoDnyZFOFIgJzp-H79Bl8lgczaDsuV9D6CZn9M
DATA FROM USA:
"Government reports confirm that domestic violence and psychological abuse is now more widespread among women than men:
— Each year there are 4.2 million male victims of physical domestic violence, compared to 3.5 million female victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control (4).
— Each year, 17.3 million men and 12.7 million women are victims of coercive control behaviors. Stated as percentages, annually 15.2% of men and 10.7% of women experience coercive control by their partners (5)."
*More in link
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http://endtodv.org/pr/recent-incidents-reveal-need-to-address-long-neglected-problem-of-violent-and-abusive-women/?fbclid=IwAR0i5DTrk3Q1RB2GS1mFUDoDnyZFOFIgJzp-H79Bl8lgczaDsuV9D6CZn9M
NUMBER OF CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS IN THE USA IN 2020 BY PERPETRATOR RELATIONSHIP:
Maternal 221,372
Paternal 138,803
Maternal with non parent 32,064
Paternal with non parent 6,910
Numbers don’t lie. Feminist agenda does.
Stop saying fathers can have custody if we can prove we aren’t abusive. Fathers aren’t the number 1 concern.
72% of all child deaths happen at the maternal home either by the maternal person or her boyfriend. - child maltreatment reports released yearly by the federal government.
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/254893/child-abuse-in-the-us-by-perpetrator-relationship/
Let’s explore what states are contributing to in our society by refusing to admit there is a monetary gain through federal child support reimbursement payments which are triggered by making dad an every other weekend visitor to his own children in family courts and letting one parent have ownership of everything through “custodial parent”.
The havoc being wrecked on our society to get that 90 billion a year paid to the states through Title IV-D Funding instead of passing equal shared parenting laws.
70% of divorces are initiated by women. This is according to a 2015 research study conducted by the American Sociological Association (ASA) which suggests two-thirds of all divorces are initiated by women. Among college educated women, this number jumps up to 90%.
Damn, I wrote a huge comment then lost it all.
Men and boys are underserved. I put my resources with them because they barely get any.
More men get raped in the USA than women if you include prison.
Child support is forced on boys that were statutory raped by their teachers. Imagine paying your rapist for 18 years.
Imagine watching Sandra Bullock laughs about using foreskin cream on her face with Ellen DeGeneres. Look it up
Women do have it better. By and large.
There's a finite amount of attention and funds and women get most of it. Men are underserved.
My body my choice, but not for men....at least a boy's penis can't be argued to be a separate life...
We don't have basic rights to our bodies.
Women have more legal protection than men and more control over their bodies.
Look at the Janice Fiamengo files video series I linked if you really want to know about feminism.
False accusations have jailed many men, ruined reputations, lost jobs.
Paternity Fraud. Women don't even get penalized for lying about that and the man still pays child support even if he finds out later the kid wasn't his.
Custody battles men routinely lose, even though many other countries do a default 50/50.
Don't get me started on the draft/selective service system.
Being forced into war by a country that has mutilated and shamed you, lol. What a joke.
Women legitimately have it better.
You know the prison sentence gap? Women get lesser sentences for a crime as compared to when a man commits that crime. Yep, by a lot, too.
The list goes on.
I'm helping boys and men because I'm called to. Not because I have anything against women, but because growing up I've felt ignored and shamed and taught to not have boundaries or to even have any dignity really. I've worked through most of it in various therapy modalities like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR and more....
Anyways, when you say "both genders suffer", you hide the ways in which men uniquely suffer more, and that seems dangerous because people already ignore men. Hell, men ignore themselves.
"The mass of men lead quiet lives of desperation".
Society as a whole is at fault.
Gynocentrism harms men and women. We should honor and respect and have love and empathy for both sexes.
All the aforementioned links I've posted detail this.
Also, lots of women get away with domestic violence. The majority of non reciprocal domestic violence is perpetrated by women. They hit men and men don't hit back.
Think of all the movies that have women slapping men in the face. Girls grow up watching that. Seeing women slap men in the face and kick them in the groin.
It's not okay.
A man's pain is funny to raunchy comedy America. Circumcision jokes, don't drop the soap in prison rape jokes, it's disgusting.
It's all dehumanizing garbage.
Edmond, also: sex discrimination against men is right out in the open, endorsed by the feminists in Human Resources, and rubber-stamped by senior executives of both sexes.
Jennifer, when female teachers rape underage boys in their class, the media says that they "had sex" - the fact that the teacher raped the boy is ignored or covered up. The female teachers very often get off with a slap on the wrist - some even keep their teacher's license.
This is just junk and stupidity.
Agreed. And misandry as well.
Women have had it difficult for centuries.
Really?
The millions of men who died young in battle throughout history defending their countries and families might think differently.
Where are the men?
the question is ....
Where are the women? Many voted for Uncle Sugar(Sam) to replace the men in their lives.
They voted for this over decades! It's their problem and they need to fix it!
Doc Alexander has asked the question "Where are the men?" He has much to catch up on on this issue! The average man has been checking out of a society that is constantly disparaging men for being masculine, now termed toxic. The social engineers in the employ of the pyramid cap have been hard at work for the last 50 years and the result is that many men are turning their backs on a society that does not value or appreciate the male gender. To whit family formation is at an all time low and getting worse. Only 6 in 1,000 men are now getting married as a box checked off for the 'Cap.'
ICFUBAR, Exactly right. Thank you.
The Feminazis got what they wanted. Now men dressed like women are the ones who get preferential treatment in the job market and leadership roles, AND they're dominating women's sports.
Go figure.